Is it normal that i am crushing on her now?

A few weeks ago I went to a party and got pretty smashed. Later in the evening, 2 friends of mine who happen to be dating pulled me into a bedroom with the mindset to seduce me. I'm pretty open-minded, would've been cool with the threesome (I'm a pretty chatty drunk though unfortunately, and wound up pouring all my secrets out instead of being involved in a 3-way), whatever. Not an issue.
The whole talking thing actually made the situation a lot more complicated. She handled it beautifully, was super nice and understanding to me, and in the end I wound up feeling all warm and fuzzy - but maybe that was just the alcohol... Her kindness to me though is something that I think is really making me hooked on her.
My problem is that now I am finding that I have a great big crush on the girl. We have a really bizarre history, she is at odds constantly with my best friend, and we both have previously screwed one another over a fair number of times. This seems like a 1-time-only thing. I'm furious with myself for missing my chance with her though, and now I'm finding that I can't stop thinking about her and the situation.

Basically, I'm crushing on one of my friends and have no idea how to handle it. Because of our past differences, I feel weird about soberly approaching her about anything, and I have no idea what I'd even say anyways.

Is this even normal?

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74% Normal
Based on 19 votes (14 yes)
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  • krikit386

    If someone acted that way to me, hell, I'd fall head over heels for her. We've all been in that situation where we begin to grow feelings for one of our friends. Me, I pushed them down and ignored them. Wish the hell I hadn't. Your situation sounds...unique, however. You sound like the friends-because-you-love-hating-each-other type, though I'm think I'm mostly wrong. But if you think there's even a remote chance, go for it. Don't be worried about your best friend. If he truely is just that, he'll understand.

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