Is it normal that i am ashamed of having a big penis?

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First of all, I am being serious and not trying to be arrogant or anything. The thing is that I have a big penis, not gigantic, but quite big.

I used to be a swimmer, but I felt very embarrassed as I grew up, because my bulge was quite noticeable at all times. Also, at the dressing room, I also felt somehow embarrassed every time I had to change in front of others.

Right now, I don't even want to make any activity that would imply getting naked in front of others, that's how embarrassed I feel about it. In fact, just wearing tight pants or shorts already makes me really uncomfortable...

I know a guy's dream is to have a big penis... but... am I normal for feeling ashamed?

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  • ProseAthlete
    11 years ago | pl

    It's really hard to answer this seriously and not take your post as humblebragging, but I can see where having a really noticeable package could be problematic for a guy.

    I don't know if it's normal to be ashamed of a big dick, but lots of people who are well-endowed in other regards feel self-conscious about the attention that attracts. Ask any woman with a spectacular rack. You can deal with it in one of a few ways:

    - Minimize it with baggy clothing or underwear that tames that beast
    - Hide and give up hobbies you would otherwise enjoy like swimming
    - Own it and refuse to give in to body shame

    I highly recommend working on the last choice. It's by far the best for your self-esteem. Yeah, you might get a couple of looks, but so is every other swimmer in a Speedo or athlete in bike shorts, so you aren't unique in that.

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    Yes, it is our cross to bear. A big 14 inch cross I have to bear between my legs.

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    • dinz
      11 years ago

      Pfft... like if anyone is dumb to not smell that fermented roll of Salami you glued on.

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      • anti-hero
        11 years ago

        Your mum was plenty dumb enough when I shoved it up her bum last Tuesday. :)

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        • dinz
          11 years ago

          Dammit.. never knew Mummy could be so kinky.

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          • anti-hero
            11 years ago

            That is what we call "Hey, let's take it easy Tuesday." She gets real wild on Thursdays.

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  • the-man-behind-the-laptop
    3 years ago

    same bro. i have alot of female friends, and some are cool with it, but i lost a few because they thought i had a hard on for them. it kinda sucks, but at the same time, my gf is happy

    edit; it is a little hard to sleep on my front tho

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  • baronroderick
    10 years ago

    Some women with large breasts feel like that too. But I don't think you should avoid activities that make you happy, like sports, just because of your great bulge. Try using special underwear, that can help a lot.

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  • DandyElfman
    10 years ago

    You are just like tall women. Everyone wants to be them except THEM.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    11 years ago

    Wanna swap?

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  • ScooterNyne
    11 years ago

    I think you just don't like getting that kind of attention. Having a big penis is a good thing but always getting attention for it might feel weird.
    Like people who get cool tattoos but get pissed whenever you compliment them on it because they have heard it a million times lol.

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    I think you should learn to be proud of him, but probably easier said than done. One thing you should do is analyze why you feel so self conscious about him?

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    I wear tight gym pants and I love it when I'm working out and know girls are staring at my massive bulge.

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  • ozzyy18
    11 years ago

    i would like to have a 7 inch erect penis im 6 inch erect im fine with it.

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