Is it normal that i am afraid to go there?

There is this girl i like but i barely get to see her. she makes my heart stop but i am afraid to ask her out. if i do she might not spend that much time with me. plus i dont know if she likes me. she likes drawing on my hand and i stick up for her so she might like me. i just dont know.

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  • Sog

    I disagree with all the people saying you should wait. If you want something, you have to just take it. If she doesn't want to be with you, then it's better to get it over with now than to waste your time living in a fantasy.

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  • Scarlett88

    Go for it!

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  • What's to know? Wherever there is great victory, there's great risk. But gambling nothing, leads to nothing.

    Act mon ami! The time for thinking about this is over. Just act.

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  • scrount

    Just ask her how she feels about you and what she likes about you. If she blushes or smiles or finds it hard to answer then that's probably a good sign that she likes you.

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  • Gentil

    That may be Love dude. Don't waste the opportunity or someone else will take that place...

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  • bumblecreek

    The sooner you do it the better, that way if she rejects you it will hurt less, rather than building your hopes up even longer. It's always taking a chance when it comes to this kind of stuff, but it could be well worth it.

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    • plum6

      exactly, at this point he is basically starting from scratch and he has nothing to lose. Being assertive and risking rejection is so much better than to keep dreaming and hoping for a miracle to happen, or even worse: sending the wrong signals and ending up in the friend-zone.

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  • Dee(M)

    You're already too late and have entered the friend zone.

    Not to mention you sound like a beta guy who will never have the balls to ask her out, which she can probably smell coming from you.

    Either man up and ask her out or move on, hanging about feeling worried for yourself gets you nowhere.

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  • Gravy

    too right Sog!

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  • GuessWho

    And you won't know unless you try...

    If I were you, I'd go for it.

    As the users above said (kelili & noopiepoe), It's a good idea to try find out what she thinks of you first, to avoid an awkward situation.

    Anyway, it's better make your move than miss the opportunity and regret it later..

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  • Terence_the_viking

    You could ask her questions but not get to the point and find out if she likes you if you ask the right questions.

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  • kelili

    You should wait a little before asking her out. What you just described seems more like a girl who likes you very much but more as a friend. Maybe I'm wrong but I think that you should wait and see.

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