Is it normal that i am "afraid" of opening myself up?

Is it normal that I, a guy, am to shy to ask a girl, which has a great relationship with me, out. I guess I'm just afraid of a possible negative outcome. Just don't want to risk the relationship.

If it's normal, are their any easier techiniques to open myself up to her?

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97% Normal
Based on 63 votes (61 yes)
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Comments ( 8 )
  • You'll never know unless you try, and trust me, if you don't tell her how you feel, you will regret it later. You can't let fear rule your life.

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  • ygrowup

    Normal for many, but push yourself to ask her! It is much harder to live with the regret of not!

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  • Vetterman

    Called the fear of rejection, and is actually the number one fear in the world, everybody feels it at some time or another. Just dont let it rule you, master it instead, you will get much more out of life that way.

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  • phoenix_paradox

    Do the next move man, otherwise youll be stick to that same place your whole life... Believe me, hurtz when someone says "no" bigger that a house but, thats better that living with fear of the answer... Try, youll fell better after that.

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  • sleepingbeauty

    Just try it, it's ok to also let her know how nervous you are.

    Otherwise ask her out for a coffee or something simple, then ask if you can consider this a 'date'.

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  • yes conquer that fear. if she says no then you'll know and you can look elsewhere.

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  • Dr.CuddleFish

    normal, i agree with ygrowup.

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  • Stretch ur vag

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