Is it normal that i am a smart white girl who loves black guys?

I am a very well-educated mostly sweet white girl. I do smoke weed, and drink and have a somewhat rebellious side to me but I am no different from the other white girls in my school. I was never attracted to black guys growing up until my friends started saying I was just because I think little black kids are cute, haha. So my friends introduced me to a black guy and that's where it all started. My 3 major relationships have been with black guys, well not real relationships but I had been sexually active with them and we were "talking". I lost my virginity to one and I don't even seem attracted to white guys at all anymore. I just love black guy's swagger and style and sexiness. They don't even treat me well, well one didn't but still I think it is true once you go black you can't go back...is this normal?

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  • justlikeheaven

    i'm not even black and i think you're an idiot.
    why do you have to bring up your intelligence, and education? do only stupid people date black people? are black people the only harmless, and violent people? is it only black people that don't treat you well?
    what the fuck.

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    • idatekidcudi

      no no its just that one of the guys i was with for a long time was extremely uneducated he was 19 and in 11th grade sorry i didn't mean for it do sound like that i don't think all black men are like that i just have a thing for black men that seem to be players

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  • Anesthesiologist

    I'm sorry, but you need to choose a more respectable and educated black man if at all. Seriously, why would you choose someone who isn't obligated to treat you like a lady?

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  • randomdudeguy

    lol "once you go black, you never go back"
    myth confirmed

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  • goldelocks

    wow you're a moron.

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  • BigRedOne

    Ya you make it sound like black guys are just for dumb gals.

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  • codhubiv

    Is it normal to date black man EXCLUSIVELY? No. Sounds like you've got some race issues there.

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  • sparrowfeed

    .. interesting you would lose your virginity to someone you were just ' talking ' to..

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  • skinnyswag

    u remind me of one of my ex-girlfriends...r u my ex??? jk jk...You should broaden your horizons. I dont think you should restrict yourself to one race of men.(btw im black)

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  • HotChocolate5155

    I cant understand how ANY girl can not like white guys. But thts just me. Everyday I look at my white husbandand think how lucky I am to hav him. And he gave me two beautiful babies, he is a great providerand he satisfies my every sexual desire. When he is at work all I can think of is his muscular body wrapped around me! One thing I like about white guys is they lift weights and have physiqus like body builders.

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  • funny you mention this i am the exact opposite of you because im a black girl that loves white guys like seriously ever since i was a kid i alwys had crushes on the white kids. your normal i think it doesnt matter what race you like because we are all human so we are all the same but i still say WHAT !!!! they dont treat you well the foundation of relationship is respect if they dont respect you than you need to change something and that black thing is a stereo type thats like saying all asians have small penises

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  • dragonballz

    it doesnt matter who you date to be honest as long as they make you happy and are not some criminal who jsut wants to screw you for the sake of it !

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  • BOYracer88

    sounds like you need someone who would take care of you, get some self respect and dont go with men who treat you like shit, white, black, green whatever remember if you aint got self respect, we aint go no repect for you, men like confidant gals too ya know

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  • Pee-Drinker

    Your well educated? And you want to live on welfare.And be treated like crap.You had three (not relationship) and none of them treated you well. You sound kinda dumb.

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  • Black guys are hot! There's nothing wrong with it(:

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  • So what did your parents do to you that you have zero self respect???
    You in a word are stupid.

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  • PandaFace

    You really are as ignorant as these people say you are. You comment on your intelligence, and then proceed to tell us that you smoke weed. If you really had any of the intelligence you claim to have, you would realize your poor decision.

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  • peaceoflove23

    look out for reefer madness, lol, jk, btw i smoke weed, im white and i say right on girl, it just means u are attracted to black men, there is nothing wrong with it, u are just as equal to the millions of white and black, latinos, asians, etc... who are just as exclusively attracted to their own race.

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  • Jen118584

    I assure you, there are plenty of respectable black guys out there for you if you look in the right places. It's that swagger you have to watch out for....

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    • Brendaeli

      She's attracted to "swagger" .

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  • fwilczek

    here we go, again, a supposedly sweet good girl who disgraces her family and society.
    is it normal?
    no, it's not and it will never be normal for a white girl to be attracted to someone of particular different race and the worst of the worst; having an animal-like nonmarital sex life with bunch of black guys. How sad!!!
    Well educated? Got college education may be but educated?I have doubts about that.
    You have been blessed with privilleges; prosperous life, education, comfortable social status but you choose falling down into the lowest point a human could have.
    Go for your disgraced, despicable deviated biological desire and continue to distray like that if you want it. One thing for sure a woman with integrity, honor and dignity will never go the way you go. I don't feel sorry for you, I feel very sorry for your parents who work their entire life to get you proper education. Too bad and sad for them, they only want you to appreciate their sacrifice; make the best out of your education and maintain the honor of the family. I would be disgraced if I had a daughter like that and I will never want one. A shame to human civilization!!!!

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    • TheConsciousElectron

      Holy shit that was an intense comment.

      Do you realize what you are saying? This is a white girl who is attracted to blacks. She casually mentions that "ONE" of them treated her badly.

      "it will never be normal for a white girl to be attracted to someone of particular different race and the worst of the worst; having an animal-like nonmarital sex life with bunch of black guys."

      "falling down into the lowest point a human could have."

      This is how you describe black people?? SHAME ON YOU!! I feel sorry for YOU and YOUR ignorance!

      obviously you are some sort of a christian who opposes sex (which, by the way, all humans biologically desire) but that's not the worst part of it: you're disgusted by the fact that she's sleeping with BLACK MEN!!

      it's also funny how you describe her behavior as animal-like when humans ARE animals who LIKE HAVING SEX AND REPRODUCING.

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    • rampokker

      Ah, fantastic and welcoming comment in this increasingly vainglorious world. Too many people out there try their best to prove how un-racist they are and then bully others with their liberal tyranny.

      There is nothing wrong with being traditional, somewhat closed minded and conservative. It will always be better to just stick with your own ethnic group.

      I believe in freedom of choice, but also in the practising of restraint. If you do happen to feel attraction for someone of a different ethnic group - resist it. Only if it is an unbearable desire can or should you relent.

      White people, making up only 8% of the global population, will dissappear one day if these liberal attitudes are not contained. Then there will be no more brown, blonde, red and stawberry hair, and no more blue and green eyes. Everyone will look the same: brown eyes with dark/black hair. What a monotonous world that will be.

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  • Brendaeli

    I'm a Mexican girl, my partner is white. ....I love him because he is responsible, respectful, educated, honest and hard working.This is the man, I hope to have a child with one day. He just happens to be white...and extremely handsome

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  • Just so you know if you've never been with a white guy before, we've got it going on down south too. The whole thing about black guys have it bigger is total rubbish. Nothing against your dating choices though.

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  • StrangeDuckDude

    I wouldn't want a homey's sloppy seconds, so you hit the nail right on the head about not being able to "go back" (at least with any white guy who isn't a desperate, ball-busted loser.)
    I'd worry what/how many diseases you're carrying by now.

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  • LeatherbackSeaTurtleIsABadass

    You are a racist asshole

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  • HotChocolate5155

    I awoke maybe an hour later, and I had to pee really bad! I walked upstairs to a bathroom and opened the door. I wanted to pee but I heard a a noise in the shower and what I thought was a guy towling off after a shower! OMG how embarrassing I walked in on one of the frat guys showering! I had already sat down at this point...it was too late!! And then, I will never forget that moment. A huge, muscular, bronzed body stepped out of the shower. He didn't see me at first. He started to grab his towl and dry off and that is when I looked down and saw his massive cock...it must of been 8 or 9 inches, and it was soo thick and veiny!! My jaw dropped in awwe. He brushed the rest of the water off his body and suddenly he looked at me and his eyes went wide when he saw me! He smiled and said "Hi!." "Im sorry I didn't know you were in here." in a very sophisticated, genuine tone. He wasn't cocky or arrogant about the situation, I think that was what turned me on the most.

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  • w0200469

    Thankyou. Just like heaven

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  • Iggykoopa

    I'm soo glad I'm black I'd hate to be White

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    • ~L~

      Lies.

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    • peaceoflove23

      i dont know what ur intentions were in this comment but i just slammed the white man for his open racist remarks, the thing is i do not believe in ANY form of racism, i believe in peace. no person is better than another based on his skin color, btw in white and im im an active member in groups to fight racism

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  • cecala

    You probably like big penises...

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  • ronmike

    There's nothing wrong with it. Whatever physical or personality characteristics you are attracted to, that's what you find desirable. For example, in general, I find Asian women very attractive. Just be sure you're choosing the real person, not just superficial characteristics.

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