Is it normal that i am a butch lesbian but i wanna try men

I've been in plenty of relationships with women and love them also I've tried dating men in the past never worked I'm not attracted I hang out with guy friends all day and never want them but when I am aroused I'll start watching straight porn and become aroused at the thought of even trying it. But once the arousal is over all the sexual attraction is gone

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Based on 54 votes (50 yes)
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  • anti-hero

    A secret to all women on the planet: There are plenty of men waiting to fuck. Just ask them and they will likely say yes.

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  • stilldoinit

    Based on my experience, bisexuality is far more common than homosexuality.

    I've been bi since age 14, when my best friend in school and I experimented over a summer break. I've enjoyed men and woman equally since then.

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  • Stormwolf1O1

    I used to identify as a butch lesbian, now a trans man. I was always very comfortable with my sexuality and still am. I feel that it's perfectly natural to want to try being with someone different, sexually. And it is completely normal to be romantically and sexually attracted to only women, yet only sexually attracted to men. Do a bit of experimenting, don't feel the need to label yourself. Having sex with a man does not make you any less of a lesbian.

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  • jeannie

    it sounds to me like you are more emotionally attached to women which is a sure sign that you are gay,
    but saying that it sounds like women aren't giving you everything you need on a sexual basis and its these needs that need to be met,
    sex with men is entirely different than with women,i had a lesbian partner a long time ago and it felt very special at the time,the sex was very different,not better and not worse just different,
    my opinion is that this is something you need to discuss with your female partner(s) and maybe try a more submissive role for a change,
    you automatically feel like you are being dominated when you have sex with a man and it sounds to me like this is something you occasionally need

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  • cumforfunn

    Nothing wrong with you enjoying both sides
    maybe you should try them both at the same time

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  • thegypsysailor

    All except that pizza delivery guy who posted last week that he wouldn't even LOOK at an apparently young, beautiful girl who answered the door naked.

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    • Short4Words

      The noblest man to ever grace IIN

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