Is it normal that i am 20 and live a shi***y life?

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I'm 20 and I've had my share of bad boyfriends and a few girlfirends ( i'm a female btw). I'm in my second year of college and I barley have enough money buy fancy stuff like fashionable clothing and such. My family keeps pushing me to find a guy and get married and have children. My father doesn't involve himself with me. My mom is a s*****t always out and about with whomever. My brother stays with my dad and his new wife and kids. i have a few friends but i dont tell them stuff about me like the stuff thats reallly bothering me. i feel like i have no life but its not cause im some creppy crazed female whos mega ugly and doesnt have social skills.. I just feel like i dont want anyone around me. Like sure i enjoy their company but after we're finished talking or hanging around , i dont want to have nothing to do with you anymore. and like i said i dont have the cash I'm sorta broke with a family whos pretty much anything but loving and im going through soo much.. so the question is... is there anyone else out there who thinks what im going through is normal? whos going through the same stuff? cause like i said im young and i really dont wanna die with a crappy life behind me :) thanks

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  • WordWizard
    11 years ago

    Its ok alot of us have shitty lives right now.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    I'm going through the same thing right now. And I'm the same age. I don't really know if its a phase, but for me its kinda been going on for quite a while now. I'd say for about 2 years straight. I just don't care that much anymore, but at the same time, I just wanna find someone who I can actually relate to, who loves me for who I am, who I connect with, have amazing chemistry with, and have a solid relationship with them.

    My mom is always telling me that I need to go out and meet a nice guy, date, build the relationship, and get married. My dad doesn't seem to care so much about it. I have friends that are in really nice relationships right now, and I feel like a loser because for the longest time, I haven't been able to find really anyone I like, and if I do they're normally off limits so I just stay away. It really kinda sucks, actually. And as for shopping, thats always been kinda like whatever to me. I'll buy whatever, it doesn't have to be expensive for me to like it. I mainly just have my mind set on getting a guy.

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    You're 20. You've had bad relationships, you can't buy expensive clothing, your parents push you to get married, and your dad's aloof.

    Your life isn't crappy, that's just life. Feel for you, but we have to get over it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Your life seems very normal with very normal life problems. Yes it's normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    please op tell me what this word is s*****t. is it Servant or maybe Student? btw dont look behind, the past is over, look to the future and plan your escape

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    • Bartholomew
      12 years ago

      sh***ty still has my mind reeling too.
      @ OP, if you barely have enough money for expensive things then why do you still buy them? Maybe you should go without for a little while. Live within your means now and it'll pay off later. Life can be rough and it sounds like you've hit a pretty rough patch but everyone does you've just got remember that it doesn't last forever.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        ha ha your post gave me a laugh

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Do whatever you can to earn money, best of luck to you.

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    Yep.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Spend your spare time studying so that you become popular with the others who will want to pick your brains. You will be able to buy nice clothes etc when you get that good job you will be qualified for. Most of us have been there, look to the future coz this is not the going to be your permanent situation.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It doesn't sound to me that your life is crappy, just sounds like college. Although i can kind of understand what your going through. Like when I'm done hanging with my friends all i really want to do then is just be alone. Just for a while at least.

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