Is it normal that i am 18 and have never had a boyfriend?

I recently finished high school and I have never even been asked out. I don't think a guy has ever even thought of going out with me. Most of the guys at my school were jerks who just wanted to get into girls pants anyways, but as far as I know I've never even been considered. So would you assume that I'm really just *that* ugly, or were those guys just immature and I actually have a chance of finding someone?

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Comments ( 13 )
  • Immature guys were probably too intimated by your maturity. You'll find somebody who will treat you kindly. Also I highly doubt that you're ugly.

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  • pinkskull92

    Yes its perfectly normal. I am 19 never had a boyfriend. And yes there are to many jerks. just wait for the right one you don't have to go out with someone just to do it. :)

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    • austine

      atry is away to get the right one and mistakes are to make you learn...

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  • Boredbastard

    I'm about to be 18 and never had a girlfriend :p

    All the girls I know are just my friends :o

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  • dom180

    Not normal, but definitely sensible. It is a good mentality to have.

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  • meowpower

    Normalish. I know someone who discussed about it. She was 18? I've only had one bf. Mostly because all the guys interested in me are creeps, too much baggage or in it for the cake...nd I'm not a hoe lol..whenever u get one, it happens when it happens:) don't make it ur priority. Ur still young girl!

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  • iceboy27

    Yah.It is

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  • girl1195

    This is completely normal... I went through high school and guys seem to not notice me. I would talk to guys and they would talk to me, but it seemed like they never thought of me as a girl they could. I thought that I would never have a boyfriend and when some guys started liking me i fell for them hard. I didnt care that they were jerks i just wanted a boyfriend. I would date them for a month and they would break up with me. this kept happening until i didnt really care if i had one anymore. Then right when i stopped looking i found a perfect guy who loves me. weve been dating for a year and a half. So trust me you will find a perfect guy for you. dont worry about not having a relationship right now

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  • Alkibiades

    ok, look, most of us aren't off-the-charts beautiful or "ugly." That's not a helpful term. Life isn't all about high school, as you're about to discover. Continue your education, keep up your appearance, develop self confidence and think about a career. Then turn your attention to men, not boys. It's called growing up.

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  • cassandravl

    Normal, I got my first boyfriend the month I was graduating high school, you may feel lonely.. But it's worth waiting for the right guy.. Someone who will treat you right and give you the respect you deserve; I'm glad that I waited!

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  • Dot123

    Yeah, you have a lot of time to find the right person. Not all guys are jerks, you just gotta open yourself up more, find the right someone. Someone that loves you for who you are inside and out!

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  • You can't say people are jerks for wanting sex. Wanting sex is natural, males seek it more than females, it's in the male's genes.

    So, males are jerks because you weren't one of the girls they considered being with? What about all the guys you haven't considered being with? Should you be called a bitch for that?

    On more of the subject. We can't know if it's because you're ugly if we don't know what you look like. If you're ugly, then that's the reason. It's a bitter truth, but a truth nontheless.

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  • YumInsanity

    It's definitely the ugly thing

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