Is it normal that i am 23 and have never been with a woman?

I always had low self esteem around women my age, and i'm afraid of rejection. I have never had the courage to even ask a woman out. I have always been kind of a loner. And i only have a handful of good friends. I'm still in college and own my own car. But i still live at home. I'm just tired of feeling alone as far as having a mate is concerned. I'm starting to hate going to concerts and such by myself. I always feel socially awkward...

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  • Shackleford96

    Isn't it ironic that this post is directly above the one below it? (Because the one below it was essentially the same question, but it was a girl asking)

    Maybe you two should hook up somehow?

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    • Boo!

      Thats so true!!

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      • Shackleford96

        Lol, kind of weird isn't it.

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        • Boo!

          These kinds of coincidents link people together. In a few years after they get together they'll be thanking you! XD

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          • Shackleford96

            I know, right? XD

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        • Justsomejerk

          I was thinking the same thing. Talk to her OP!

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    • Shackleford96

      No. Bad cat!

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  • Well would you rather be alone OR be with some women who is borderline crazy, that doesnt leave you alone, has destroyed your car, tries to dominate you at every turn, and undermines you at every chance she gets, not to mention rampantly cheats on you??

    I have never had a women like that myself, mainly because I just wouldnt tolerate it, the point being it could always be worse.

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    • Captain_Kegstand

      Is that the only two options? HaHA

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  • jondoerandom

    It's normal, dude. It doesn't really matter to girls the car you drive or where you live.. honestly, back in highschool i thought this stuff matters, but it doesn't. If you're serious about finding a girl but don't have a lot of girls in your social circles you might try websites like plenty of fish.. not sure they work around the world, but if you're in canada/states you should check it out. And there's nothing awkward about online dating! Most of my friends, myself included went of a bunch of dates and/or found a mate through online dating.

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