Is it normal that i am 29 and do not have a girlfriend?

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People say that I look very attractive. Not only that I have many talents. I am a Software Engineer working in one of the best companies. I have peformed Michael Jackson dance styles in many shows (thats me in picture). I can play many musical instruments like Flute, drums etc. I am a very good painter, I had an exhibition of my paintings. I also do standup comedy. I don't know how to prove whatever I said but it is all truth, I do all these things. I am not exagerating or being cocky I am telling the plain truth because I am really in pain.I don't have a girlfriend yet. It just never happened. I mean I got many chances but it never happened. If a girl likes me I reject her, If I like a girl she rejects me, If we both like each other then may be God rejects it (lol). I don't know why it just never happened. Now I feel ashamed of myself. I think one reason is that I am a bit reserved person but not too much and I got many opportunities but it never happened because of some or other reason. And also I just don't want to be with anyone for the sake of it, I want to be with someone I really like. I think it is some past life sin. Now I've distanced myself from everyone. I think I've lost my time. Can anyone please say something on this.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    If a girl likes me I reject her, If I like a girl she rejects me <--- This part right here is the main reason. Not sure what type of girl has liked you, but she was in the same sitauation as you when you like someone and she rejected you. Maybe you reject them because you didn't think of them that way, or they're a stranger to you, so obviously you don't have feelings for them. Not 100% sure on the situation just form your story, but you're creating an endless cycle. Next time a decent girl ask you out, go on a fucking date man. Just fucking do it. That is all.

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  • ashley2012
    11 years ago

    I am the same way. single. Attractive. However, it seems like i always want what i cannot have, or want what i know will hurt me. I have finally decided to just stay single and not worry about it. I'm just going to enjoy the freedom, and worry about myself.

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    "people say I look very attractive" Yeah......people lie.

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    • mechinu
      11 years ago

      LoL....Thanks!

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      • Darkoil
        11 years ago

        Haha I was just kidding :-)

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  • Segaist
    11 years ago

    Having a girlfriend is not the most important thing in life.
    Why would it be?
    Your life seems interesting to me as is.
    Don't you enjoy it?
    Not having a girlfriend means freedom.
    Don't you need it?
    Your time wasn't lost as long as you yourself believe it wasn't lost.
    Do you really need a girlfriend?
    Is this really something to be sad about?

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    • mechinu
      11 years ago

      Ya you are right.....every aspect of my life seems good and I enjoy it. But at times I feel to be with someone, I feel lonelyness. And it is even getting worse as I am getting older.
      Not everybody stays alone, everyone is with someone.
      It hurts when people ask - 'Do you have any problem? Is there any medical problem?, Do you have financial issues?'
      Anyways Thanks for the comment. It really made me feel better.

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  • mechinu
    11 years ago

    forget about the picture
    can anyone please say something on my situation.
    Thanks

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Pics or it didnt happen

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yeah.

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Ya what picture? Where do you live?

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    • mechinu
      11 years ago

      I live in India.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    What picture?

    I think that maybe you do so much things that you don't give yourself the opportunity to meet and get to know people. Do you go out much?

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