Is it normal that i always wind up hating all my friends?

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I've gone to a different school every year of high school. I will make a group of friends that aren't really close, we just kind of hang out at school. At first I'll like them, think they're nice and funny and whatever.
Then later on in the year I'll suddenly find myself getting annoyed by everything they say, and just hating them. Like I cannot stand to be around them, everything they say and do makes me angry.
Am I just a crazy antisocial person?

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  • DoNotMindMe
    13 years ago

    I think this is normal, since you're not becoming very close with them. You just haven't found people you can spend time with beyond casual meetings.
    Sometimes I feel like I hate my good friends, but I'm really just looking too closely at whatever little flaws they have.

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  • bodiewangler
    13 years ago

    I agree with Starlly, once you get to know somebody you should be able to accept their flaws while appreciating their positive qualities, unless they have really big problems that alienate most people around them. Perhaps it's a self-fulfilling prophecy that makes it easier to leave your social niche every year if you hate everyone anyway.

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  • Starlly
    13 years ago

    Not normal: You shouldn't be getting angry and annoyed about everything especially if there was at one point qualities you enjoyed about a group of friends. And this shouldn't be a repeat every time you switch schools. Next time you feel this way with them think about what in particular is upsetting you and try to work through it and enjoy your friends again or this could be just another repeat in a year. It could require some serious thought and work with yourself.

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  • XJayX
    13 years ago

    You may just've hung around with them too much.

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  • Thinktomuch
    13 years ago

    I think its pretty normal,I end up secretly hating my friends mostly cause there to predidtable.

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  • koifish
    13 years ago

    Feel the same way.

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  • fox
    13 years ago

    I guess just keep reminding yourself that everyone has flaws and everyone is different ( even you). There is no way you CSM find a group of ppl that you like Allllllllll the time. It can be difficult but just keep telling yourself not everyones perfect

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  • artFreak
    13 years ago

    erm,,, maybe is not that..
    Maybe,, b/c as u said u changed school every year of high school, when u found some people u wanted to stick with them, b/c u basically were making new friends again and maybe didn't want to be alone(?) and just didn't see their real self..
    Of course i don't know so...i'm just saying :)
    Excuse my english

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