Is it normal that i always want to have sex?

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I'm a 20 year old female and, well, every second of every day, I could have sex if my boyfriend was willing to. We've been together for a little over a year and I have not lost the flame at all and he still turns me on just as much as he ever did. I'm thinking that he thinks something's wrong with me and he said that I should go get it checked out. Do you think something is wrong with me? Is it normal to be constantly horny? (-__-);

Additional details that make this more odd: I have major depression and anxiety. Currently switched off of Lexapro and Paxil and am now trying Effexor and Trazodone at night.
Also, I've been obsessed with the thought of sex since I was 4... :(

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Based on 11 votes (10 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Dump your Boyfriend and come to me. I live on Jupiter

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    • spazatikal
      11 years ago

      Funny enough, I'm not from this planet anyways. What's your crater number? I'll hover by sometime. :P

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  • Dad
    11 years ago

    Please see a doctor.

    Yes its true the 'honeymoon period' of a relationship can last years, where both individuals cannot get enough of each other.

    But that depression and anxiety is obviously a concern and may be related to your strong sexual drive to see attention from others, just to keep you feeling sane.

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  • YumInsanity
    11 years ago

    He's clearly grown bored with your vanilla sex, get one of those strap on things and pound his ass with it till sunrise

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    • spazatikal
      11 years ago

      That's what I thought - that he's bored.
      No, that's okay. I don't really want to say "I've pounded my boyfriend in the ass." He wouldn't let me, but I wouldn't do it to begin with.
      I just wished he was more into S&M :(

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Humans want sex. It is genetic programming that has insured our survival as a species. It is completely normal!

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    • spazatikal
      11 years ago

      But ALWAYS? Especially for a woman?

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      • Captain_Kegstand
        11 years ago

        In my experience, women are just as horny as men. Men are just more open about it.

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        • spazatikal
          11 years ago

          then what the hell is wrong w/ my bf? LOL

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          • Captain_Kegstand
            11 years ago

            I have no idea, there are some people with lower than normal sex drives. That can be caused by a number of things, such as medication, tons of stress, long tiring workdays. I dunno that.

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            • spazatikal
              11 years ago

              He always says stress but I work with the same company, and his job really isn't all that bad. He just overreacts sometimes. Besides, it was MORE stressful (at work) for him when we first started going at it like rabbits.
              I honestly think it's me, not him, that has a problem. I don't know how someone so young could obsess about something they hardly knew about.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    Not normal for most, but you sound level headed and a exciting girlfriend. If you was mine, I wouldn't want you to change a thing about you!

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    It's hard, isn't it?

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    • spazatikal
      11 years ago

      Yeah, but he thinks I'm weird. I think HE'S weird because he's a GUY and should be just as horny. In the past month, we only had sex ONCE. Holy jesus. Maybe HE should get his testosterone levels checked. Haha.

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      • TerryVie
        11 years ago

        once is really weird.

        now, for couples together a while, i often heard they only are intimate 2 or 3 times per week on average, some even more seldom, but ONCE a month after only one year?

        No wonder you're permanently horny.

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      • NotFloydzie
        11 years ago

        Woah, woah, woah. Once? Goodness. Have you tried telling him you feel this way? Not just talking about it, but having a serious discussion. It might help you and him. And, perhaps trying something new would heat things up. Such as role play or a strip tease and so on. Google it.

        Talk to him about it.

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        • spazatikal
          11 years ago

          I have talked to him about it. He said that he wants to, but that he's stressed out from work. That never stopped him before...he is against spicing it up...he won't be a man in the bedroom lol...

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