Is it normal that i always want to act tough and i scare guys

i am a girl and i was rejected by my dad when i was little, he told me he didn't know me and had nothing to do with me. growing up i noticed how i was very aggressive towards others, not at all gentle, wanting to look tough all the time. can i get rid of that feeling or should I live with it?? i dont feel good at all being like this :(

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  • anormalperson

    wanting to look strong and unvurnabale is a very common behaviour to people hurt or abused or rejected as children,as long as you are not hurting anyone be as tough as you want ;)

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  • edwininthematrix

    there are lots of tough chicks out there who get attention from guys, for example goth and alternative girls give off that cool scary vibe but many of them are nice pepple when you get to know them.

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