Is it normal that i always unwittingly fall for lesbians?

The odds just don't correlate with pure chance. Probably 7 out of every 8 girls I fall for turn out to be gay. Even as a kid I always liked the tomboys best. It's mostly a personality thing. Maybe it's that I'm not too dominant of a guy. I don't want to be dominated either, but I want to feel like my partner's equal in as many ways as I can.

Even if the girls I fall for seem shy at first, they always turn out to be intellectual (not to say straight girls are dumb), confident, down-to-earth, and straightforward. When I was in eastern Europe, I found most women to be this way. Many of them did not wear makeup. I don't have anything against makeup itself, but I tend to gravitate toward girls who don't come across as vain or self-absorbed in any way. Natural beauty is, of course, always a plus.

I suppose I have to admit that part of the reason I fall for gay girls is looks based as well. Gay girls are, more often than not, altnerative in style and many of them don't try to look like Barbie. I'm just simply not attracted to fake tans, bleached hair, false lashes, and high heels. It's not quite real to me, and it doesn't come across as wholly human or sexy, even if I can see these girls as aesthetically pretty.

Sometimes I worry that because I'm unattractive to the very type of girl I'm most attracted to myself, I'll never find the "one". The girls I could see myself falling in love with just seem to see me as their straight friend and nothing more.

Anybody else have this problem?

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  • SomeoneKnows

    They might be saying that they are lesbians so they don't have to date you.

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    • Why be mean and presumptuous like that? They don't tell me they're lesbians, I figure it out before I even ask them out.

      It's a fairly easy thing to surmise when you start getting to know someone as a friend. She might say something like "she's really hot, I could date her" or "my girlfriend and I do that too". Even the ones in the closet will have never had a boyfriend and have rumours about them floating around that they made out with three girls at a party or something. You don't pursue someone who you know there's no chance with.

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      • Murun

        You never know. I have twice had unexpected sex with self-professed lesbians!

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  • dongwhan

    just buy fake boobs to wear under your shirt (not big ones, most bull dykes try to flatten them down anyway), don't have pre-marital sex,don't talk about sexual preference and what ever you do, don't let her know you're a guy until you're well on your way to the honeymoon suite.

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  • Asstastics

    If you don't like kissing or fucking it's not really a problem. Give them oral and send them home.

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  • daydreamer394

    A lesbian is no more a tomboy than vice versa...

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    • I think I make it pretty obvious via the context that I'm making a generalization.

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