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We are in love and he wants to marry me, yet I somehow always think he will leave me even though he says he will never leave me. I have never done anything to cause him to want to break up i.e. cheating, but I can't help but think he's too food for me. :(
If he does please tell us about your broken heart... I love hearing about things like that
Constantly worrying that someone's going to leave you and that you aren't good enough for that person is a good way to make it happen. If he hears, "I'm not good enough for youuuu!" often enough, he'll start finding reasons to believe it; relationships have died from clingy, needy behavior.
Try to find ways to feel more confident in the relationship and in yourself. It isn't really healthy to waste what should be happy moments worrying about when or whether they will end one day.
Unless you both die in a fiery plane crash or something, one of you is bound to leave the other in some fashion someday. Make sure your life is one that's full and rich enough on its own before you share it with someone else.
It's normal to think your loved one is too Food for you. Sometimes your lover is a chocolate fudge and you're just a plain pancake. It's normal.
Real answer: The best couples i know are the ones where they both think the other is too good for them. If he truly loves you like he says he does than he won't ever give up on you. The worst thing you could do is spend your time together worrying about a possibilty that might not even happen.
You don't know the future. Just live in the present and enjoy the moments you have together. It's the best thing you could do.