Is it normal that i always text first?

I have this friend who acts like we're best friends when I see him, but he never texts me. I know that makes me sound dumb, but hear me out. He NEVER texts me. I always text HIM.

I am a little paranoid, but I'm sort of worried that he thinks I'm needy. And that I am needy. I feel like a loser every time I text him. And when I do text him, he always replies "lol" or "k." It really POs me, actually.

Is that normal? Anyone else in that situation? What do you think?

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Based on 95 votes (61 yes)
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  • stonecutters93

    Had this exact thing happen to me, and I was exactly where your friend is. One day she stopped texting me, and I wondered what happened, so I started texting her. Try not to text him for a short while, and if he doesn't text you first then you can either talk to him about it or get used to not talking with him anymore.

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  • emilydoll

    Stop texting him so you won't feel bad or discuss it with him

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  • BridgePeoples

    Speak to him about it or perhaps do what the others said and dont text him for a while and see if he bothers with you and go from that. :D Goodluck!

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  • peterr

    Your next move according to him would be to offer him a blowjob. Go for it, you cocksucker!

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  • catywompus

    Some people just hate texting. I know a few people who refuse to text

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  • Stop testing him then if it's such an issue

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