Is it normal that i always need my boyfriend?

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Is it normal that I always need my boyfriend? I'm really depressed and suffer anxiety and panic attacks a lot. This especially happens when we have a fight or just when I feel distance from him in bed. It annoys him so much and he gets angry and leaves me in bed to the other room. He is supportive though when the attacks aren't about him. When they are and he leaves me I have to beg him not to leave and I cry a lot and I think about hurting myself or scratching myself. This also happens when I don't see him for a couple days or he cancels plans with me last minute. I also freak out all the time that hes thinking about breaking up with me if I do something wrong. Ex. When we have an argument on the phone and he hangs up on me I call him so many times til he picks up. I always need him I always need to feel loved or held by him.. I love him. And he loves me and has faught for me even when i tried to break up with him but still. I feel horrible how mad and frustrated he gets with me. I don't want to lose him. He makes me so happy when we are together..

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I used to be like this. 100 percent the same!! It's not a healthy relationship. You are definitely better off seeking a counselor, or someone supportive to help you through your anxiety in this relationship, because what you are experiencing is not healthy, nor is it good for the relationship. It sounds like you are dependent on him, and using him as a security blanket for your anxiety - exactly what I used to do with my ex. However, we did break up, I did lose him due to my problems, and after seeing a therapist, changing my lifestyle situations and getting on medication etc, I'm feeling much more grounded these days. Discuss with a professional the best solution for you, but I think this needs to be fixed.

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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    Perhaps you should see a therapist about your anxiety and panic attacks? This is most likely caused by something much deeper than not being around him. I'd hate to think what it'd be like if you weren't with him - how bad your anxiety would be. My advice for now is seek professional help and just try keeping calm for the sake of your guys' love.

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  • rock-chick
    11 years ago

    if u continue the way u du u'll end up lossing him

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  • MssMurd3r
    11 years ago

    You sound really immature. Maybe too immature to be in a relationship. I mean think about the pressure that you're putting on this poor boy.

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