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i used to be a shy guy but recently i got over that. i started asking out girls but everytime i get rejected. its gotten to the point where its 100% chance of it always happening. so i made a decision to not even try anymore and stay away from females. what do u guys think?
Be a cocky bad boy that doesn't give a damn. You can put a dab of semen behind each ear to attract women that are ovulating. You are not experimenting enough. You have nothing to lose.
Watch Simple pick up on youtube. It will make you WTF?!?! yourself. Instead of just asking them out, try making conversation. Compliment her shoes, ask about a book she's reading if she's holding one. If she's smiling and chatting, say soemthing like "I think you're really cool. We should go to coffee sometime. Can I get your number?" I'm thinking maybe you're moving to fast so you get shot down. I can't tell that though, just from what you've said.
idk to me it feels like when im at home i want a girl but when im not i dont feel like it. is it cuz i only lust but im not a liar too?
Nah. That's human nature. People in relationships want to be single, and single people want to be in relationships. My dad is semi-retired. He got a job for the hell of it. Bored and what not. He started complaining about the job and how he should quit. The next day he got fired. What did he say to that? Well shit.. not I don't have a job. What does he want now? Another job. It's the stupidest thing, but we all do it. Could just be you're lonely though. You said you go out and you feel fine. Do you mean like with friends? If so, it's likely loneliness. You like having people around, so the logical feeling would be to want a girlfriend. But in simple terms, you just want to be around people.
i feel ya buddy ...i a, the same way...and i am single at 47.....you will never figure out women....because they are all different...you cant really know what they were thinking at the time you asked them out...most girls have someone else...even if they are single and unattached, there is some guy or girl who they think about...to get them interested in you ...you first have to be around women that WANT to meet someone...it is rarer then you think...because like i said even the single ones have someone they dream about...but try to go to places where the women are single and drunk....it raises the odds...however those places tend to have a lot of single unattached horny men trying to do the same thing...
I think you just had a bad streak of luck. Maybe I'm hopelessly positive but I still think that everyone has a relatively good chance of finding someone to date with. And I mean really everyone. In my opinion, if you can handle the rejection, you should keep on looking and moving forward, the right girl will come sooner, or later.
I went thru that until about 25, then I met some friends who knew a few "loose" women, so I built up my confidence a little. And then I met my wife, and, not paying any interest to any other ladies after that point, the other ladies I ignored all wanted me. That's how the world works.
If you need a loan you can't get one, and if you don't need one and your credit's good, all the banks want to loan.
Yes you should refrain because apparently you do it all wrong and if you get dumped over and over people will begin to think that you are a big loser so it's a good idea to cool down.
I think the first sentence says it all. How do you feel when you do these things? Are you more confident? Are you just asking any cute girl out?
I think what you are doing is might brave but you might be being rejected because you're not making a connection. It could be that you're out of your element, or trying to be someone your not or just missing the signals. Are these girls smiling at you or holding long eye contact?
You have to ask these questions. Tell me what you think.
I guess flirt whenever you feel like it and just wait for a girl to come to you theirs no rush