Is it normal that i always cheat?

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I have been in quite a few relationships throughout my 20 short years of life. I have been in a handfull of very serious relationships, &&even almost made it to the alter with two of them. But no matter what, no matter how happy I am or how much I genuinely love the man I'm with, I just can't stay faithful. I have literally cheated on every man I've ever been with. With that in mind, I have never cheated on a single woman I have dated. But I still lie to them about stupid things, or flirt with other guys. Is it normal to be this unfaithful? :/

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Yeah I say stay single so you don't have to feel guilty about it, your still young enjoy your freedom:)

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  • BurnaBaby27
    10 years ago

    Stay single.

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  • DriveShaft815
    10 years ago

    Don't forget that marriage and monogamy is the the most accepted form of relationships. As humans, like many other species, we have promiscuous instincts and desires. It doesn't make one a terrible person... just more in touch with one's natural desires. Some people are capable of suppressing their desires and committing to one partner; some people aren't. It doesn't make you a bad person to desire others, nor does it make you a bad person to act on those desires. What makes it bad, is when you lie or deceive others to whom you have made commitments. Be open about yourself with the next person. Let him/her know from the beginning that you desire other people. By admitting that you have issues committing to one person, it doesn't make you terrible... just honest. But let him/her know ahead of time so that they don't expect otherwise. And to answer your question, I think it IS normal to cheat. The truth is that most people aren't honest about it.

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  • [email protected]
    10 years ago

    Just get the word WHORE tattooed in large letters on your forehead and don't worry about a thing.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    "Bisexual" is pure tryhard novelty. You're stupid enough to think rubbing carpet together will start a fire!

    More likely, you just use it as an excuse to make yourself feel like you're better than men, because you're weak as fuck.

    Man up you butch doodle licking bitch, hahahahahahahahhohohohoh-oh-hoho Tommy stop it.

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    • SkullsNBones
      10 years ago

      Being bi-sexual is not a choice, nor is it a "tryhard novelty". Bi-sexual people cannot help who they are attracted to, they often find their feelings scary confusing when they're young, as society tries to force them into labelling themselves as hetro or homosexuals when they are neither. I understand that some attention seekers can appear to be putting on a show with their sexuality, but I know several, otherwise perfectly ordinary, people who genuinely are attracted to both males and females and I ask you to please show them some respect by not accusing them of being "tryhards" in future. Thank you.

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      • Abend_zersetzen_mich
        10 years ago

        tommythecat is a lunatic. It's best just to ignore him.

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      • gummy_jr
        10 years ago

        :) best comment

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        • SkullsNBones
          10 years ago

          Thanks

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  • Hamid37USA
    10 years ago

    It is too bad in America. Where i am here homosapians is not allowed.

    Friend=Hamid
    your welcome

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  • Abomb
    10 years ago

    You're not trustworthy, a man loves you and you just throw that all aside and get with another, then you do the same, stay single, or stay with a man that loves you and you love back.

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  • StarTeddy
    10 years ago

    Instead of cheating you should just have open relationships. It's normal to want to be with more than one person at a time, but lying and going behind your partner's back is unacceptable.

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    • hxchottie
      10 years ago

      I've tried this a couple of times. the other people I was involved with were too uncomfortable with it.

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      • StarTeddy
        10 years ago

        Well, I think the detail is that it should be open from the start so the people know what they're getting into.

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  • GreyWulfen
    10 years ago

    Some people just are not capable of having long-lasting relationships - and you are possibly one of them. Until you alter this behavior, better stay single. That's best for you and your potential partners.

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  • Ibelievethis
    10 years ago

    I've never had a serious relationship partly because I would not stay faithful. I cheated on one guy because he was not fulfilling my needs shall we say.

    I am not interested in all that love an stuff. I never have been and I doubt at 30+ I am about to start now.
    I have one night stands and I am always very straight with them and I tell them This is a one off, I do not want you to start asking me for my number after this. I am very friendly at the time mind you!! My attitude is if a guy wants N.S.A. sex I am the women for them, well at the time.
    However If they're looking for a wife or life long partner, then I aint the women for them.
    I am a committment phobe. The only committment I have ever made and I am so glad I did. is becoming a mum. xxx

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago

    Some people are just capable of a married relationship

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    This is why i don't trust bisexual women.

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    • elenaki
      10 years ago

      That's stereotypical and unfair.

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