Is it normal that i allow my wife to spank me;when i misbehave?

I'm guessing you feel you have been redeemed from your bad deeds, but also you have the awesome feeling of relief of stress.
Spankings are one of the most preferred and effective methods of relieving stress.
Question; after your spanking, don't you feel better? In a relieved way?

Millions of men envy you, my friend. The fact is, you do not "allow" your wife to spank you for your bad behavior. Your wife wisely chooses to spank you. It is her right. You are blessed to be disciplined by her and it speaks well for you to be grateful to her. Wives should not hesitate to tan their husband's hides when necessary. I admire the dynamic of your marriage. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. It IS normal and healthy. Good for both of you!

Yes--for something serious I take a bare butt paddling right after i shower---It hurts on my bare butt--but there is no argument from me---I got it coming---When our sons were at home--i would sometimes have to wait and i disliked the waiting and coming home at noon--but we are alone so when i got it coming i get paddled asap and it works for us

On my 30th birthday I asked my wife for a present. Being in a giving mood J didn't flinch when I asked her for a hot suck and a spanking. Surprised that I offered to sacrifice my bare ass to her wrath J had been suggestively asking to spank me for my bad attitudes for a long time. J got a big smile on her face promising my fantasy would come true after I showered when I got home from work. All day long I was excited about my fantasy come true. J was an excellent fellatrix but refused to swallow preferring to use my come in other inventive ways. She forced me to swallow more than she has ever taken down her Throat. Whenever she allowed me to fuck her I was always on top so that my semen would not stream out of her pussy. She would give me a push on my shoulders inviting me under the sheets to do the "cleanup". Pushing the back of my head guiding me into her crotch she would invite me to suck and swallow all of my own come out of her pussy and then lick her to orgasm. I hurried home from work as J greeted me at the door with a kiss telling me to get in the shower because she had a birthday surprise planned. Getting out of the shower with a huge erection I licked my lips wondering what J had in mind. J was still dressed in her casual shorts and shirt refusing to get naked with me priding herself at being the ultimate cock tease. I was disappointed because she had a great set of breasts and a body that kept me up all night. Smiling J ordered me to lay on my back on the bed and get ready for my fantasy to come true. Married to the most experienced oral expert that has ever sucked my cock I was looking forward to one hell of a birthday. Grabbing the base of my cock she started squeezing, holding off any kind of premature ejaculation swallowing the rest of my shaft J started rubbing her sharp teeth on the sensitive underside of my cock while she was sucking up and down. Immediately I was rendered helpless by her mouth becoming her oral slave. Being Butch J rarely sucked my cock preferring to have her own pussy licked and receiving all the pleasure herself. I only got sucked on rare occasions so that she could show off her expertise and keep me addicted to pleasure. This time she sucked me with a vengeance almost as if she was punishing my cock. I was completely under control at the mercy of her mouth. Sensing that I was about to come she spit out my cock just as I began shooting my semen into the palm of her other hand. Even after I stopped squirting she was squeezing every last drop into her receiving hand. Like every guy after he comes you lose a lot of your sexual fantasies to keep going. Reminding me that the second part of my fantasy was to get spanked Judy looked at me with that nasty smile ordering me to roll over on my belly. Reluctantly I rolled over as Judy began massaging my own semen into skin of my bare cheeks. Remember I had never been spanked by my wife before even for a birthday so I had no idea what it was going to feel like. After massaging my own come into my ass I thought it was going to be a sensual spanking but I knew my wife was chomping on the bit to finally give me payback for all the problems I caused her in the past. Without hesitation the spanking began as the hair raised on the back of my head as I felt J raise her hand high in the air and lower it is hard as she could on my bare ass cheek. The loud noise of my cheeks getting spanked and the electric shock that ran through my nerves from my ass to my head raised an alarm. Showing no mercy and repeating striking my cheeks back-and-forth by the fourth slap I started crying out and wiggling my ass trying to avoid the blows. I knew this was not going to be a sensual spanking but payback for an accumulation of pent up wrath that was inside my wife. Asking her for a birthday spanking ended up being an open invitation to give her an excuse for payback time. Determined to make sure that I paid the price the blows lasted long after 30 and beyond. I was getting treated to an ass blistering that I have been deserving for a long time. I tried not to resist keeping my hands off my cheeks as I suffered through my punishment. I actually respected my wife and know I was learning how much wrath I was actually deserving to receive. It seem like the spanking went on forever but I was sure it only lasted five minutes when she finally stopped. My body continued bouncing up-and-down from phantom blows as I cried out in tears from my first real adult punishment spanking. J was actually a little speechless and maybe a little embarrassed after finally getting a chance to beat my ass into submission. Ordering me to lay there for a while and think about what just happened she said she would call for me in about an hour to come downstairs and have a "discussion". After she left the room I got curious and went into the bathroom to look at the damage in the mirror. I couldn't believe my ass was completely red covered with full handprints from my wife like a signature autograph. I felt quite ashamed and sad that my wife had to spank me that hard yet deep down I knew that I deserved every slap and more. I had to lay back down on the bed because my ass was on fire from the spanking and it would've been impossible to sit down for quite a while. I heard my wife call from downstairs telling me to get my ass down there and stay naked. Timidly I walked down the stairs and as soon as I saw her face I was already tearfully apologizing for everything I've done to piss her off. Sitting in her favorite chair she calls the Queens chair she ordered me to kneel down before her so that she could discuss our future. Ordering me to shut up and not talk she explained that she was considering divorcing me if I continue being the same or she offered to continue being married if I excepted her terms of being her slave. Promising that the spanking I received today was just the beginning of many because one spanking was never going to account for all the things she was disappointed about in our relationship. Confessing that I was not the first guy in her life she has ever physically disciplined and that she knows tricks about administering a whipping that I would've never imagined. Sliding off her shorts and panties she grabbed the back of my head pulling my mouth into her crotch inviting me to please her orally. The smells and tastes of her pussy sealed the deal and I decided beg her to stay.

In a great and long marriage---I once in a while take a bare ass paddling from my wife---It is for certain behaviors with male friends that my more religious and moral wife disapproves---there is no argument we both seem to know at the same time when a bare paddling has settle something. It sure hurts on my bare butt! Since no one else ever knows--no matter of embarrassment or shame--it just something totally private that works for us---I think it is totally normal just very private--Even when our children were at home we made sure we were alone so I had to come home from work to take a paddling more than once--that did make me nervous---if I can get it right away I am not that nervous --well a little nervous I just want to get it asap--When done things are once again very good between us I always wonder if I am the only guy

what's a spencer paddle.I currently get spankings with a ping pong paddle.

I get spanked for minor offenses or just maintenance or obedience training but for real punishment my wife uses a Spencer Paddle. I am restrained standing up next to the bed and gagged with her panties and duct tape to hold them in place. Elbows and wrists are cuffed together so I cannot protect my ass. The Spencer Paddle hits both ass cheeks and really hurts. I am very obedient and thankful when she stops.

If you both agree that this works for your marriage then it's nobody else's business.