Is it normal that i all of a sudden feel insecure?

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I just found out that my boyfriend of 3months has only had one relationship before me. They were together for a year, broke up, and then got back together after 2 years of being apart. They then broke up again after 8 months. We started dating just a month and a half after they broke up the second time.

I can't help but think that they. Just have had something very special in order to get back together after 2 years, and I can't help but think that he thinks of her when he is with me. Am I being irrational? How do I get over this feeling? He is an amazing guy and I really like him. I know that he likes me too, but... He has a history with his ex and if she was to walk back into his life again, what would happen then?

I'm getting paranoid now:(

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  • Arm0se
    9 years ago

    You don't need him. If he can't commit then he isn't worth it. I'm a guy btw.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      What makes you think he can't commit?

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      • Arm0se
        9 years ago

        Because yo broke up and got back together like three times and he keeps going back to his ex? That doesn't strike you as strange? How old are you?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          I have only known him for 3 months. He took his ex back once. Not twice. Sorry if I made it sound otherwise...

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  • MoonlightSin
    9 years ago

    I'd say talk about his ex with him.

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  • asdfghjklove1111
    9 years ago

    just trust your boyfriend. or, if you really wanna know the truth, ask him if he still love his ex. everything happens for a reason.

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