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People always tell me im pretty,but im not able to talk to really fine ass hell boys without panicking.I always end up acting weird or what boys seem to tell me is that I be actin like im mean or not interested in them. Anytime I start dating someine they end up being really ugly.Everybody keeps telling me im pretty but why cant I get a really fine dude?
Being pretty is only part of it. Dating takes getting along with someone.
I don't panic, but when I see the really handsome/cute boys that I have previously liked, I can't help doing all the romantic stuff. It's normal. Just calm down and try to control your behaviour more and you'll be fine.
Oh so young and naive. But yes, it's normal.
If you didn't give physical beauty disproportionate importance you'd be acting normal around both "good looking", and "ugly looking" people. Most important, you and those around you would be happier and live smarter. .
If you think you're acting weird with good looking people, let me break it to you: you're acting weirdest with "ugly" looking people. How? You're making their lives miserable by overlooking their worth and permeating the delusional notion that physical beauty is the overarching characteristic that gives life value.
When you're older and wiser you'll realize sex is most enjoyable when your partner meets you on several dimensions of compatibility.
Is it possible that the guys you're dating happen to be fairly compatible to you and you're oblivious to the fact?
No I dont think so.Its just the fact that cute boys like me but for some reason I get nervous and self conscious around them
Simple enough. In that case Imacurlybaby19, I think you ought to study the seriousness of flaws these cute boys have. As we get older we start seeing these things, and they're ugly, everyone has ugly things... making that exercize may give you the perspective and balance you need to look at all men eye to eye. Good luck!