Is it normal that i act like a mean bitch all the time?

I am aware of what i am, i know that i am aggressive, whining, uncomfortable and being mean to the people that i am close to. I just know that i am being rude from the moment that i start to act like this and i can't stop it. I tell to myself well this is my personality. Because i think i kinda like it. Don't think i am like a monster, but ... What do you say? Can you really stand this type of people? Should i REALLY try to change myself?

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Based on 43 votes (16 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • Ldizzy1234

    There's a point where I think its okay to have a little attitude. I mean, sometimes you have to defend yourself, and a lot of times people will try and take advantage of you/walk all over you if you don't show them a little backbone. Although, be that way when its necessary, or when the time calls for it.

    My advice: Try to be the better person in all scenarios. Be respectful. You don't have to like a person to show them respect.

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  • alv1592

    Sadly it is normal...I come into contact with so many bastards and bitches. Not an attractive trait though. However it sounds like you have some good inside you. Try to show that good side some more. I myself am trying to cleanse my mind of all the negativity...I'm not even that mad at Kate Nash anymore.

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  • I don't think I'm a monster either, I just want to kill everyone and eat them afterwards.

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    • suonetar

      well, what you do is just what i am, offensive and unnecessary agression.

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  • It's possible to be super nice and be alone and yet be an asshole and be extremely popular.

    My only advice is this: Make sure your intent is in the right place. Do you care about people? Do you feel affable towards them? If so, then be yourself and let the chips fall wear they may.

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  • Bitch.... :)

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  • KatieLiz

    Haha you'll grow out of it. Bitchy types usually do once they realise they're throwing their life away

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    • suonetar

      Well, i can say in either ways, i'm not throwing mylife but growing out of it sounds nice:)

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  • Ono

    You only get one life, why waste it on being a loser.

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  • joybird

    I think people who are hateful to other people actually hate themselves or just can't find any happiness either within themselves or in their lives.

    The sad thing is, people catch on to the fact they don't need to take your crap and you're left alone to fight with your shadow.

    I'm speaking from experience as my mother is one of the nastiest hateful bitches you could ever meet. She has five children and everyone of us dreads the phone ringing in case we have to listen to her vent her spleen about some imaginary injustice that someone did to her - maybe 65 years ago! A total load of sh!t.

    Please don't be nasty with people. They should want to be in your company - not dread you calling.

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  • MissClaire

    Sounds like puberty

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    • suonetar

      nope not puberty at all i'm almost 22. maybe it sounds worse now. I'm not a native english speaker that may be what sounds you like puberty.

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      • MissClaire

        Ahh, I see. Well, then, I would look into it some more. Maybe seek proffessional help. Your the only one who is in control of what you say, and how you choose to say it. Only you know why you are so angry. Very good english btw.

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  • lemun

    You say it's your personality and that you like it, but if you have to ask, maybe deep down you really should change. Either that or you'll grow up and grow out of it. lol

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  • somethings bothering you underneath these episodes i think, some frustration or anger or grief, this is the thing to find, can you speak about it to anyone? or maybe as dr phil says " whats the payoff ?" maybe you enjoy it

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  • EveningOwl

    I say, yes. Because I'am a bitch and to damn bad it's freakin hard to change and if they really cared about you they'd bend over appriciate the honesty and take it like a man. Besides some people are annoying. Btw doll monsters aren't real conforming,jealious ugly little pussies made them up, to feel batter about themselves.

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