Is it normal that i absolutely love white girls?

First and foremost, I am not racist, but I do have a preference.

I am of a mixed race & ethnicity. Puerto Rican & Black. Yes, I think many Puerto Rican women are beautiful (light skinned); however, I've never dated, nor do I have a preference for them. On another note, personally, I don't find black girls attractive at all. I never dated them, I don't plan to, and I don't have them as friends either.

Ever since I could remember, I've always favored white girls. In the past, every girl I've dated was white, but not the type of girl I could have a long term relationship with. Now that I am older, I have set my standards a little higher: I now look at education, healthy-weight, proper-dress, personality, character, etc. I never noticed it before, but with a heightened sense of reality, I have found it extremely difficult to pursue such women. I have tried, but 90% have parents who are racist, ultimately making them racist or in the closet racists.

I don't know if it's ironic or not; nevertheless, the white girls I end up finding attractive are the ones who are racist! Or, they end up being the ones who only have racial preference for white men.

It's easier to find a white woman in the inner-city with no education or morals, more than willing to date outside her race. And, I know there are women out there who are the complete opposite of this, but they are near impossible to find (at least in my experience).

This has become so much of a frustration for me that I am quickly beginning to grow uncomfortable with my own skin color. There are so many relationships in which I know I can get in if I were a white man. So sad to say!

My dream is to have a great looking, intelligent, outgoing, white girl. Something I have been searching so long for, ending up at dead ends every which way. It has become pretty depressing actually.

I don't need to hear any negativity. However, mature opinions are welcome.

If you have any detailed questions at all about anything I said, just post it. I will reply.

Have a great day.

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Comments ( 16 )
  • uhohoreo

    I am a white women and all I have ever dated were black men my whole life....there is nothing wrong with how you feel at all...I can't help the way I feel it's been this way for to long now...you will find a white girl that you will wanna spend the rest of your life wit....we are not all bad I promise!!!!

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  • iin

    I'm not sure about great looking, but I don't think I'm terrible. I am intelligent, outgoing, AND white though (;

    Everyone has their preferences..so that's completely normal. Seriously, holla though because mixed guys are my preference!! ;)

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  • Go to Canada. There are lots of educated, healthy, white women who love men with color in their skin.

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  • totally normal , i saw allot of black white couples in my life. and its a night in here =)

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  • mrsjones

    i think everyone should embrace their ethnicity and learn from its history

    do not allow your insecurities to consume you and lead the way you live you life

    it thinks its cute that you have this desire for white women, intelligence should include an open mind but hates seems to be rooted deeper

    i hope you find the woman u r looking for and that she will love you for you

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  • deepthought33

    You sound like a friend of mine. I've always thought his standard were quite high, but I cannot say he won't find exactly what he wants if he is patient and open-minded enough. I'd say the same to you :)
    I know it isn't always feasible to just up and move but maybe you'll have better luck in another area.

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  • Star1778

    i like asian girls, and i'm not asian. doesn't mean i'm a racist, i'm not. i just like asian girls.

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  • serpenteye

    I believe that you have some sort of person that you idolize, and you notice she is a White Female, and your conscious makes you think that all white ladies are like that. I myself am white, but I'm not a girl.

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  • Whitneyhouston

    Don't be so picky with skin color.. you'll find PLENTY of beautiful, educated, healthy woman of all colors. Why just white girls tho?

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  • Gidget

    Aww well i hope u find that certain someone but yes the chances of u finding a well meaning girl of any race in the inner city is slim possible but slim just keep looking who knows you might find a dark black woman with all the qualities u are looking for dont be so picky keep up ur standards but things such as skin color shouldnt be such a must

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  • orchid1227

    You will find her... just keep an open mind. The right one always pops up out of nowhere. Get out, go places (not bars or clubs... you'll never find the right one there). Get involved in things outside your norm, and who knows, you might meet the right one whether she's white, black, asian, whatever- it's not always about what's on the outside. Love is about how you connect and how well you fit together, and love is obviously the base of all lasting relationships.

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  • Have a great day.

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  • evilcommenter

    Race does not matter.

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  • "my dream girl is attractive, intelligent, BLAH BLAH BLAH....and I just can't find her, and this frustrates me very much so.."
    Worry about something more important and get your vagina amputated.

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  • Comm0nSense

    what's with the skin color it's just like fukn indians in America who diss the darker skinned and prefer fair skinned Indians WTF.

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  • browndoll

    sad...

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