Is it normal that i aborted my child in a public restroom

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I was pregnant and I'm only 18 and I was really scared because my boyfriend is 32 and he doesn't want kids and I did not want him to breakup with me but its his fault because he wouldn't use condoms and my mom would beat the crap out of me if she knew i was with him so after the test came back positive i knew i could not tell my mom and my boyfriend threatened to break up with me because his emotions are all spent on his nieces and nephews and he loves them more than he loves me so i stole some RU486 from my mom because i looked it up on google and that is an abortion pill and i thought it would be ok but i went to au bon pain and i was gushing blood and so sick in the bathroom and there was a line outside and these mean girls laughed at me and my boyfriend broke up with me because he loves his niece who is 7. has anybody else ever done that because i am scared and my mom kicked me out for stealing the ru486 and my only friend was my boyfriend who dumped me

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago

    Im sorry you have to deal with such a messy situation, and sorry commenters here have been so abusive about it. :/ I know how guys can be about the whole condom thing, but I would make someone use one... If he wants to get laid bad enough he'll deal, yanno?

    But from what you've said of your bf, I honestly don't see how you could stay with him, he sounds like an ass and like he's making some lame ass excuses. And do you mean he literally has feelings for his niece? Cus that's kinda creepy.

    I know the stigma that goes with abortions, but if anything has to happen in the future don't try to do it yourself, there are private professional places that can help you and keep you safe.

    I hope things get better for you. :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You just did it again!^

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  • OrganisedPeanutButter
    12 years ago

    Fake

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  • IPurr4U
    12 years ago

    AMAZING

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    You know I don't understand why they still don't have classes to explain to kids how to deal with these type of issues. Need something to prevent this type of thing.

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  • blue_burr
    11 years ago

    If this is true he didn't care to much about you anyways to let you do something as stupid ur 18 going out with a 30yr old if I was ur mom I'd slap some sense into u too or try too your better off find a better dude note I said dude cuz that was no man no man would let his girl hurt like that. And if u were gushing blood like you said u would have at least passed out. Use ur head don't let no dude control u like that again that's stupid u could have died ur 18 u shouldn't be fuckin some 30 year old dude anyways that's nasty he don't love you all he wants is that young pussy. Get a job if u want a sugar daddy.... Be ur own sugar daddy! I'm done. This story is bullshit anyways I bet ur trolling. Stupid and childish.

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  • blue_burr
    11 years ago

    I'm laughing so hard!!! This shits whack!! Lmao!!

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  • BigShit
    11 years ago

    Disgusinf

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  • vulcancuber
    11 years ago

    I had my abortion via the abortion pill. You probably should have gone to the doctor about it. They tell you all the side affects. It is extremely painful and blood will gush. Luckily I took mine at home.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    This OP has at least 20 sentences strung together with conjunctions and particles. This post, hopefully, is fake. It is really a rather sickening thought that anyone could actually be "this" stupid. And this is just a comment about her poor grammar...

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    • IPurr4U
      12 years ago

      gems i did not come here to be judgement but to get help and i bet you've never had a tough situation that comes off like a stream of consciousness you're a mean girl

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    It sounds like you've been on a bit of a rollercoaster lately. I'm sorry about that and hope things pick up for you.

    I'd want to say to anyone else in your position that, if you're considering abortion, please don't try to do it yourself. Visit an abortion clinic, even if it means facing stigma. Your health is more important than what a random stranger thinks about you.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    How in the fuck is that his fault that you got pregnant? Fuck...this pisses me off.

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    • RomeoDeMontague
      10 years ago

      Well I think its both the OP fault for allowing herself to have sex without a condom but since he would not use or supply them either its partially his.

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  • Cobrakitnu
    12 years ago

    You need to tell your mom this.

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    Your ex-boyfriend is a creep from hell!

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