Is it normal that i’m having second thoughts ?

I’m bisexual, I’ve known that for a while now, I’ve had sex a couple of times with a guy “I’m bottom”, but lately I’ve started feeling regret after I’m done, like I’ve did something wrong, why is that ?
*The sex isn’t that gd tbh, but I live in a conservative/religious community, & he’s the only one I know that would keep it a secret, I guess*

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Comments ( 17 )
  • SwickDinging

    You're basing it all on this one guy. Maybe you just aren't that into him anymore?

    I don't know your personal situation but if it's possible to move somewhere more progressive where you can be openly gay then you may find you suddenly have nothing but good things to say about sexy gay sex with sexy new people.

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    • Fukdup

      Yh I hope so too, but unfortunately I can’t move in the mean time, but hopefully in a couple of years time.

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  • IrishPotato

    Praise lordy jebus

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  • CDmale4fem

    You are having second thoughts because of where you live. Simply put, you been raised to believe that same sex sex is bad, wring, taboo, whatever you want to call it. Next time let him be the bottom and see if that makes a difference. Or just try sucking each other off and see if that's better. I just know I tried yrs ago and ask my buddy if he would fuck me, he never answered and it never happwned. I'm not sure why, he seemed to live sucking my cock and swallowing.

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    • Fukdup

      Yh you’re probably right, & about him being bottom, I actually asked him once, his reply was “I’m not like that”.
      So I guess I’m out of options 🤦🏻‍♂️💔.

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      • CDmale4fem

        He's "not like that" in what way ? He doesn't want to admit that He to might like his ass being stimulated by a hard cock, or he's afraid it might hurt ? Or he's afraid that catching instead of pitching might be considered "gay or bisexual" ? If he's ok to put his duck in your ass then he should be willing to take it if he's putting it out. Some people like to do the deed but don't want to be labeled for what it is. If he was letting you suck him off but didn't want to suck you off then I would think he likes it to the point where it might make him seem "not 100% straight". I hope it's good enough to be worth it. I bet he would be one to spill the beans to someone at some point.

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        • Fukdup

          I think you’re right about the part of him afraid of being labeled as “gay/bisexual”, or that it’d make him less of a “man” or somethin, I’m not sure. To answer your question, it’s not even close to being OK, but it’s the only thing I got to be honest, & about him actually telling someone, it’ll be his word against mine, he doesn’t have proof.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    who would jesus do?

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    • I’d like it to be me 🙏🏻

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      • RoseIsabella

        Our Lord, and Savior isn't gay, but maybe the guy in front of Home
        Depot is.

        His name is pronounced hey-zeus.

        Probably another Mexican dude from the garage he works at, or someone from the landscaping company.

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        • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

          jesus were pretty buff & hung round with 12 dudes a lot

          just sayin

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          • RoseIsabella

            Naw, Jesus was straight. A lot of scholars now believe that Mary Magdalene was his girlfriend.

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            • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

              oh sure but when i hangs out with hos and talks bout how my moms a virgin the rumor mill churns away

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        • leggs91200

          I WONDERED if he were gay. I mean "Hey-zeus".

          Knowing he is explains things.

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        • Lol. Are you steteotyping Mexicans, rose? They don't all hang out at home depot and build houses, ya know. :)

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          • RoseIsabella

            Nope, I'm just making a joke. I have some Colombian relatives who have married Mexicans, and they are lovely people. It's just a joke, yanno?

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