Is it normal that he wont talk to me??

Ok so me and this guy were dating for
6 months and we recently decided to take a break cause life got to stressful and we were talk a on Monday he said he really wanted to see me and talk so we met and he said he wanted to get back together and i told him i`d think about it and the other day i wanted to talk in person that i`d made up my mind and now he wont see/talk to me he said hes just really busy but idk hes been acting weird the thing is i want him back and thats why i wanted to talk in person i just dont get it it seems like hes avoiding me he said hes not but idk what
to think help.

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  • Faceless

    Hes mad at you idiot.

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    • Kittkats

      Well i have asked him before if he was mad at me and he gave me a long reason why he wasnt mad so yes i have considered that hes just mad at me.

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  • Pink_bunny

    He got hurt that u didn't want to take em back when he asked you. He probably decided to move on and his now busy with someone else.

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    • Kittkats

      Thats not it i have talked to him and asked him like i told ccjigsaw he finally agreed to meeting me after i told him it was good news and his mom has started to blame me for some problems he has been having like she claims i have been getting him into drugs but i don`t do drugs so i couldnt have gotten him into that and i told her this yet she has been bugging me about it since Thursday anyway once she got involved he wasnt so sure about meeting cause of the stuff his mom has been saying about me all of the stuff being said by her is untrue and i continue to tell her this but she wont stop so yeah its just complicated

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  • ccjigsaw

    In this story, you never said that you told him you wanted him back. I'm assuming he thinks the answer is no

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    • Kittkats

      Well the thing is i`ve made it kinda obvious that i want him back i haven't said the words to him yet but that`s because i want to tell him in person i hate doing that kind of thing or the phone or text/email and he knows this.

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      • ccjigsaw

        Guys can be incredibly DENSE. You can be as obviouse as you want, but in sensitive situations like this, it needs to be said properly. I respect you wanting to say it in person, but if worst comes to worst, you may have to cave. Maybe txt him saying. "It's not what you think, it's good news! Can we talk?"

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        • Kittkats

          And tbh i`m getting so sick of this like everytime things get better they just go back to being bad all over again idk what to do anymore.

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        • Kittkats

          Yeah the thing is i told him over the phone its good news! there is nothing to worry about. and yeah lets just say this his mom decided to start blaming me for a bunch of problems that i didn`t even know about till today and so now just when i finally got him to agree to talk to me in person his mom goes and makes things bad again.

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  • flax

    It's called .

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