Is it normal that he wants to role play i'm 10 and he's 40 during sex

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I'm comfortable and kinky and I've been pushing my boyfriend to get into more kinks. Well I think I may have pushed so hard it made me not only very uncomfortable during sex but very uncomfortable being with him. We start having sex and out of no where he's like your (me) 10 and he's a 40 year old creep. Young virgin privates and eventually he came. We talked about it and he said that it's just a role play and he's no goof. I understand kinks and fetishes but I feel highly disgusted and it has changed the way I feel about him to be honest. He said he's not into kids and I understand but that's fucked up. I know there's age play, was That him being kinky or being a goof. I feel sick to my stomach to be honest with you. I'm not trying to be judgmental but in the world of kinks he crossed my line unknowingly and I don't know what to do. Can someone give me some advice? Is this fun or is he a goof, he better pray he's not one because i would have to Murder him.

We are both adults.

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  • LuxM4G
    6 years ago

    Perfectly normal paraphilia in my personal opinion. Now the true question is if either you have it in you to appease his fetishisms or if you will jump ship because you feel drifting apart from him due to your differences in the sexual field.

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    • Forgetme1989
      6 years ago

      If it's just a role play I can do it... I guess

      But if that's real life hell to the fuck NO

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      • LuxM4G
        6 years ago

        See, it's just a harmless role-play sexual game between adults who just want to spicy up their sex life. Nothing to be afraid of, doesn't mean he's a pedophile though it is caracther revealing. I don't want to broaden this subject, just make sure you feel comfortable and respected as a woman with whatever sex games you play between the both of you.

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    • Forgetme1989
      6 years ago

      But how do I know it's just a fetish or is that what you long for in real life ? Do you know what I mean ?

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      • LuxM4G
        6 years ago

        I see what you mean, it is worrisome. But you know what, don't stress your mind, have a serious talk with him and try to read into his mind, you women are good at it.

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  • Justmehere
    6 years ago

    Role playing is one thing, but this sounds a bit..Creepy to say the least. If it stopped, great, but if it return, I'd say, no...Let's do something else. I dated a woman (former business associate) who was great and wild in bed, but, had thing for dragons..Sometimes she'd say things like "Treat me like a dragon would", or "Use your dragon fire on me".. Was fun at first, as it was new to me, but after a few times, I found it a bit strange..

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    • Forgetme1989
      6 years ago

      Yeah but that's a fantasy role play, this is gross. I love him and what to be with him but if he's a really goof I don't want anything to do with him

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      • Justmehere
        6 years ago

        Understood, and I do know the dragon thing was just her indulging in fatasy (I still didn't like it). We got along well, though, as business associates, friends, and sexual partners. Most people thought we were a couple to begin with, even before we started up.

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        • Forgetme1989
          6 years ago

          Did you guys break up due to the dragon scenario?

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    • Jimbo24
      6 years ago

      Lol that's what Skyrim porn does to you. I came across chicks who were into sasquatches, Big Foot, and the like.

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      • Forgetme1989
        6 years ago

        WHAT?! LMFAOOOO 😂😂😂. Why? Oh my God

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        • Jimbo24
          6 years ago

          It's the beast thing apparently. Being taken and shagged by a beast/monster seems to be sexy, it's a mixture of the girl being soiled and degraded and the contrast of the beast dominating the beauty. I should get me a Chewbacca costume..

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          • Forgetme1989
            6 years ago

            You know what, I might try that next

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            • Jimbo24
              6 years ago

              Yeah I mean if you're gonna get all 10-year-old schoolgirl for him, then the least he can do is dress up as Big Foot.

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  • Electra
    6 years ago

    It’s disgusting. We are talking about 10 years! Maybe I can understand playing teenage or something but it’s not normal.

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  • CDmale4fem
    6 years ago

    Yes, that's fucked up. You probably should investigate him a bit more. Check his photo gallery on phone and computer, see or make sure he has no child porn. If I were in your place I would probably start packing and don't hold your breath.

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    • Forgetme1989
      6 years ago

      Oh I've already checked his phone and computer he's been on paradise nudes. Look in to BDSM but that shook my fucking soul. What the fuck ? We've been together a year and and 3 months. It's was so weird. Is that age play or just some fucked up shit? Like that's really disturbing and caught me by surprise. At first I only checked to be sure he wasn't cheating on me and nothing thank God came up for that shit. I love him but If that's how he is, fuck that. I wish I knew for sure, I'm so disgusted. He's wondering why I'm distant lately asking me what's wrong but I can't handle that he did that. I'm disturbed deeply. He says he was trying to turn me on and I said no you threw that scenario out there and I sat there in a stunned silence

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      • B_E_Z_sweetie
        6 years ago

        Don't ask for what you can't handle.

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  • S12207
    6 years ago

    What pedophile actually admits they like little kids, seriously. You've got every reason to be disturbed.
    It's always something like "Oh my gosh I can't even believe it. We've been friends for 10 years, he's the nicest guy I never would have suspected."

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    • Forgetme1989
      6 years ago

      We got into another argument this morning over it, he wants me to dismiss it as a drunk stupid sex comment role play but that's was fuckjng disgusting. I told him that can never happen again he said it won't but I can't help but to question him, I would never want to be with a pedophile. I can't say he is , but that's disgusting I can't get over it. Would you say he is ?

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      • RoadRunners
        6 years ago

        Fucking gross!

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      • S12207
        6 years ago

        Honestly if I were you I would get out seriously, it's way too creepy like people don't get off on stuff like that. I'm sorry this has to be awful for you. The other thing I'm assuming is now you're weirded out and it's always going to be in the back of your mind and your problems will likely progress. Not saying he definitely is a pedophile, but I mean it doesn't seam right and nobody would admit something like this knowing you're not ok with it you know?

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  • TerriAngel
    6 years ago

    You asked for it.
    What's messed up, you enjoyed it.
    But blame him... WTH.
    Is that your version of guilty pleasure?
    You got off thinking of being the little girl.
    Who's more sick?
    Him for bringing it up?
    That said.
    Its over.
    You crossed a line searching his stuff.
    You lost trust, you feel disgust.
    Just move on.

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  • Forgetme1989
    6 years ago

    He doesn't seem like q goof

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    • RoseIsabella
      6 years ago

      He seems more like a piece of shit.

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  • Jimbo24
    6 years ago

    You obviously never heard of the DD/LG. If you enjoy it keep going, if not tell him to quit.

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    • Forgetme1989
      6 years ago

      I don't even think he knows what DD/LG is? What is it ? Is he s oefophile ? Do I need to run for the hills ?

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      • Jimbo24
        6 years ago

        For the most part it's girls who are (or act) childlike, and their men care for them and deal with them like a daddy would his kid. Like they read them the occasional story, give them toys or dolls to play with or cartoons, discipline them when they act out or get too bratty, hug them, take them for ice cream or to the park, and often provide for them and give them general structure to their life. Basically childlike girls with a father figure. They also screw them of course.

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        • Forgetme1989
          6 years ago

          Yeah, he doesn't do any of that

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    • Forgetme1989
      6 years ago

      He wasn't daddy, he was pretending to be some random pervert and rapped a 10 year old and said I wasn't going to school.
      Is it normal am I over reacting ?
      I'm not comfortable with this. Omg

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      • Jimbo24
        6 years ago

        That's not exactly DD/LG then. Maybe he's just into school-aged girls. Ask him straight if he's attracted to prepubescent girls and you'll get your answer.

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        • Forgetme1989
          6 years ago

          He said no, that he thought we were just role playing and now he seems bothered by it.. he liked the teen and student role play

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          • Jimbo24
            6 years ago

            Cool then

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  • NashamaTheWeird
    6 years ago

    Tell him that you are not comfortable with that kind of role play and explain why. Discuss the matter with him and ask him what is it about that sort of scenario that turns him on.

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    • rayb12
      6 years ago

      I am responding to OP here for reasons I'll explain later.

      You pushed him to be vulnerable and real with you and are upset with what you found.

      This is life, and you should look what is in yourself you fear, that makes you deflect and judge your partner.

      Now, in Judaism there is a concept of everyone having a body and soul which in Hebrew is pronounced "goof" and "nashama". So I found this particularly interesting.

      I came to this post because I wanted to tell nashama the meaning of her name, after seeing her profile, and then I found "goof" here too, so I couldn't help.

      Also don't listen to RoseIsabella, she HATES MEN. If a woman had posted that her boyfriend was pushing her to get in to kinks, she would have also said he was a piece of shit.

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      • Forgetme1989
        6 years ago

        Can you elaborate on what I found?

        I'm still trying to figure this out.

        What I fear is i have morals.

        I have a certain line that I don't cross & my fear comes from is not knowing if he's like that or not?

        Does that make sense ?

        Honestly reading this made me feel so bad for pushing him.

        He said he wanted to make me happy. But he was loving it, then he said why didn't I say anything I was shocked and he was screwing me (his **** felt good I was lost into it it's like it went over my head)

        Then I felt disgusted with him and then hating the fact I didn't ask him to get off of me. Honestly I was stunned and he felt so good.

        He seemed very upset with me when i wouldn't let it go, honestly we had sex three more times after that in different role plays that thank God they weren't of that nature.

        But it still bothered me.

        I wanted him to try race play as we are an international couple but he's uncomfortable treating me like a slave. But he can do that ? It just makes me wonder.

        Do you think I've lost his trust?
        If he was like that do you think he'd tell me?

        What's her problem with men?

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        • Jimbo24
          6 years ago

          Maybe he feels towards slave play the same way you feel about little girls the same way that other commenter feels about dragons.

          A "fetish" is just another word for particular things that turn us on, that we desire. And yes, the line between fantasy and reality can get blurry, because if we desire something in "fantasy" so much that we want to enact it, then why wouldn't we want it for real? I mean a dragon is a dragon.

          So we all have our moral limits, somewhere where we feel "it's too much". And I think we should respect the limits of our partners. Because if the other doesn't enjoy it then what's the point?

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