Is it normal that he sends mixed messages

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My boyfriend hates guys being interested in me. Hes a bit of the jealous type and although harmless about it makes it obvious he dislikes guys around me. However, he has a fantasy that he wants me to fulfill where i go into a club and get a random guy to grope me and finger me while he watches. He says he doesn't even mind if i bring the guy back home to sleep with yet usually hes annoyed if a guy even rings me at night? IIN?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    When he says this, is he under the influence of alcohol/drugs, or are you in bed together? Those things could change his mindset, but after the high/boner wears off his reasoning comes back and he realizes he'd never be cool with that in real life.

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  • laVero
    12 years ago

    Sounds good in theory to him, but I dont think he could handle "da mornin' after".

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  • DannyKanes
    12 years ago

    You have a weird bf. Sorry.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Don't introduce any of that crap coz he will never be able to live with the reality afterwards! You two will split up as he won't respect or trust you anymore! It's ok as his wee fantasy but what he really wants you to say, is that you could never go with anyone only him! He doesn't really want you to be a slut unless he wants to split up with you and is looking for an excuse.

    It's up to you!

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