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Is it normal that my boyfriend was too tired to make love to me tonight, so hes sleeping with his back to me, while Im on this site at 4 am writing this and feeling very lonely :(
If he had a long day and it's late, yeah, of course it's normal. Sometimes men get to say no, too. Let him get his rest and use this time to read a good book or something.
No. He's 44 and tired. End of story. I've heard sex drive peaks for guys around 22 and not for girls until their 30's. Sometimes the mind says yes but the body says hell no. There's usually only one bullet in the chamber at that age.
As far as turning away, maybe he's just sleeping in the way that's most comfortable at that time. I vary which side I turn to sleep nowadays.
Don't listen to the others. Obviously men never get tired, it is scientifically impossible. They also are always in the mood for sex, we men are not emotional creatures with feelings and moods but unthinking beasts that always desire sex. It is impossible for a man to value a woman for anything beyond her sexual ability either so it is totally normal to feel lonely if he doesn't grasp madly for the only possible value you could give to him. At least that is how society likes to portray men anyway.
YES IT'S NORMAL!
Just because you've got naughtiness on your mind, doesn't mean he has too. Yes it's disappointing when you want sex and your lover doesn't, but it's also perfectly normal to occasionally desire different things in the moment. That shouldn't make you feel lonely, you're still sleeping beside him, you still love each other. His penis not being in your vagina at that moment makes no difference.
It doesn't mean he no longer finds you attractive and it's a pointless thing to get upset about. Think about it - how would you feel if you weren't 'up for it' because you were tired, and he stayed up late posting on an internet forum asking if it was normal you wouldn't give him sex that night?
Always great to wake up rested and to a sexy, barely clothed hot female that has passion on her mind! Be creative, keep it exciting and new! Good luck with your choices
Im 34 and hes 44 years of age and we have been together for about a year. We usually meeting twice or three times a week. We love each other and I was looking forward being intimate with him. Had something nice and naughty on, everything seemed perfect....but after short while he went soft. We chated for a bit and he went asleep. I felt frustrated. Anything I've done wrong? Doesn't he fancy me anymore? It never happened before.