Is it normal that he's scared to commit?

Me and my bf have been dating for quite a long time and for months he's been asking me to move in. It was a mutual agreement and after months of saying I'll move in, I actually did it.
I transferred my job, my parents bought a smaller house, we've been preparing it since around November.

3 days into living together he suddenly asked me to move out because he doesn't want to commit.
What does he mean?
Were in love, we get along great, I get on with his housemates. We've been happy about the decision the last few days and then he said it so suddenly.

He said at the start of the relationship he was scared to commit to us but after a while it went away.

Should I be worried? How can I understand what going on in his head?

Sorry for the long question.

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Comments ( 7 )
  • joybird

    I think he feels married and is terrified.

    Reassure him that you are not married and that you have no intentions of marrying him. Hopefully this will help to calm his nerves / phobia!

    Good luck.

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  • Moneybagschest

    I am afriad of people.

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  • abominus566

    it may be possable that, he may not be sure if you want him to commit, or that you may not want a commited realitionship or something. but it can be a number of things those are just two possable senerios

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  • flaffytaffy

    He's probably blowing you off for his roomate's sake. Just a hunch!

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  • NoraBaker

    What Faceless, Anime7, and Mando said.

    That's just wrong, woman!

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  • Anime7

    I suggest you two sit down and have a talk. I think that he saying to leave was just an impulse. But I would highly recommend talking.

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  • Faceless

    Fuck if I know.

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