Is it normal that he's my friend, i dont like him but he turns me on

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I am a girl, a student. I made friends with a guy this year. We have become very close. He teases me a lot, sometimes he calls me ugly, stupid, or mean in a sarcastic way. Sometimes he touches me playfully. I don't like him like a crush. But when I think about him all I think about is having sex with him. I've asked him a few times if he ever wanted to be friends with benefits but sarcastically, and he said he wouldn't mind. I don't know if I have problems. But all I think about is having sex with him 50% of the day, and I don't even find him that attractive.

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  • Fall_leaves
    10 years ago

    Even in a sarcastic way I'm not sure I would find his playful insults to be a turn on. Are you still in Highschool?

    I think it's normal to be turned on by someone but not attracted to them in a relationship way. Look at playboy bunnies and women that sell their bodies, most guys don't want to date them but they wouldn't mind bumping with them

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    • Anime7
      10 years ago

      Great example!

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  • Gamzeee
    10 years ago

    Fuck the shit out of him. You go girl.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    10 years ago

    you might not have feelings for him but your body does

    but this doesn't mean you should just do what your body tells you. you need to decide if a meaningless fling is what you want - and if he wants it too of course

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  • Hayze
    10 years ago

    It is normal to go through a phase like this sometimes. It is not very rational though. If you are serious about wanting to be friends with benefits I think you should discuss it seriously with him, but first think hard about the possible consequences. Often somebody ends up hurt. Have fun while you can.

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  • Geneva5
    10 years ago

    Offer him your asshole /

    He will love it.

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