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When your with your boyfriend at the mall or anywhere, for him to look at other girls when's around you? I kinda see it disrespectful.
I think it's disrespectful when guys look at other women (and we always catch you once in awhile) only because I never check other men out. I don't feel the need to because my man is all I need. Women are just different than men I suppose. Maybe we are easier to please?
looking is 100% normal. and what do you expect him to do when you are around, walk around looking at the ground? stop being insecure about it because that is only going to push him away. unless he has given you a reason to be jealous, there is no need for it.
Isn't him looking at girls a reason to be jealous? Him talking to girls? I'm sure he has girl friends. So where is the line drawn at where it's a good enough "reason" for her to be jealous? Jst wondering.
well it depends on the person, whether they are the cheating type. my cousin in a very touchy-feely kinda guy but that is just his personality. he loves to hug people. he is very flirty with everyone but its just in good fun. he has a girlfriend who knows he wouldnt do anything and knows he loves her and doesnt want anyone else but her. maybe the OP has been cheated on and now doesnt know how to trust someone else.
i dont see anything wrong with looking at people. i even have pictures of naked men in the bathroom at my work which my husbands knows about and he pays me out about it too.
but everyone is different. a lot of people think watching porn is wrong and disrespectful and they get jealous. but they are just a bunch of pixels!
if you dont like your partners personality then instead of trying to change it, it might be better to find someone more suited for you and your likes and dislikes.
Wreckd it's mean to take out your anger for your husband on the other women. It doesn't help the feminist cause to call women oompa loompa bimbos just because your husband has a wandering eye.
Ughh. My husband did this the other day while getting Starbucks in Target. I was sitting at one of the tables with our son and he was gawking at some oompa loompa fake tan, short dress bimbos. Watched them leave the store. Even the guy standing behind him in line was like, "WTF!?" You can imagine the look on my face when I finally caught his eye.
Why don't u try the ill pay for you, you pay for me. It's like you both treated eachother to dinner, and spares putting a hole in your wallet.
What I do is that I point them out to my husband so he doesn't feel like he can't look! He can look all he wants! There is no harm in that!
Dappled, is snippiness specific to bi people, or did you mean to add something?
TheConsciousElectron (wicked name, btw), it right. He's going to look, he might even be interested (might not be 'wow, she's hot' if might be 'nice shirt', 'what's in her shopping bag', 'maybe I should get my girlfriend a BumpIt, it looks good on this girl'. Hell knows)
Relax, let him look, but let him know you don't appreciate long stares. My guy knows my feelings, and now I know if he's staring at someone he's only lost in a train of thought.
Talk it out, lay down some boundaries.
What do you want, him to walk around with blinders for the rest of his life?
Believe me... if the only thing he does wrong is let his eyeballs focus on another girl, then you have nothing to complain about.
Unless you're insecure.
A glance is okay but anything more than that is a bit disrespectful. My ex is bi, though, and even a glance from me would elicit a leer from her. I stopped even glancing.
haha I am single...I can do whatever I please. Just because women are attractive doesn't mean they're whores. I just feel sorry for your low self-esteem and your degradation towards other females.
I didn't call them whores. I called them bimbos. I call it like I see it. The way you carry yourself is a powerful thing. And no, I'm not another feminist. I don't see the point in sticking together when most girls are bitches anyway. I'm bitter, yes. But it suits me well.
Why don't you mind your own business CountryRoads? You're single and have seemed to be a bimbo yourself.