Is it normal that he lied straight to my face b/c of weed

sounds like you're just a nosey dumb whore

Holy sh!t woman!!!!! Leave the guy be . You can't change people on command. If he wanted to quit he would quit, beside weed ain't that bad, it's a good steers reliever from control freaks like you

Your jerking him off, I'd say anything to get some of that action, espically if I was stoned!!!

Don't knock smoking until you try it. Actually, I bet if you did it you'd love it... and fooling around high is really fun. I'm a 19 year old girl and used to be just like you. I thought smoking was gross and wouldn't date someone because of it. Once I tried it, I did a complete 180. It's a great natural stress reliever and it's been around since like the Indians. All these people wouldn't be fighting to legalize it if it was so gross. I respect your right not to do it, but then you need to respect his right to do it. Even my extremely conservative Christian friend finally tried it at 24 and LOVED it. He wondered why he waited his whole life to do it and why everyone makes such a big deal about it.

Good luck!

"Is this normal for potheads?"
No.
However, it is normal for people to lie to crazy, controlling she-boss like you because they can't stand your drama. Lying to you may not have been the right thing to do, but when you corner someone like that, you'd have to be a complete idiot to expect anything else.

"Chronic liar" That's fucking hilarious lol

No. Both parties are at fault. He shouldn't have lied to you. And you shouldn't have been a controlling bitch. the guy just smoked weed... it's not like he was a baby raping serial killer. Relax. Weed is just a plant, and the government bullshits the public into believing it's bad.

Not normal. He shouldn't have lied to you. and I don't believe weed played a part in the lie except being the topic at hand. Smoking weed does not make people into liars. He already was one.

If you feel that strongly about not having someone who does soft drugs in your life, don't date them in the first place. You can't simply expect someone to be something else, and then call them a liar when they can't or don't want to make those changes just for you.

So what nothing wrong with a lil smoke. I know my dad and my mom did it and to this day my dad tells stories about him smoking with buddys and stuff

This one makes me laugh, everytime I see this situation go down, the guy keeps smoking weed and either the girl deals with it, or she dumps the guy and starts dating a complete loser... so I know it's normal for this to happen, but it's even more normal to not make a big deal out of it. chill out

you sound like my buddies psychotic ex.

you cant make someone quit their daily habbits for your happiness. and if u truly liked him, you wouldnt ask him to give up his happiness for u to be happy. thats just some selfish bullshit. if u didnt like him smoking... THEN YOU SHOULDNT HAVE TALKED TO HIM.

this is even coming from a dude who hasnt smoked weed in over 3 months.

seriously though... think of the one thing you love doing most, if he asked u to quit for him... would you??
^^that might sound dumb, but until you are a pothead/stoner you really cannot judge, because there really is nothing wrong with it. do the research

www.norml.com

best website ever.
look at the people on it.. hmm their wearing suits and they work in courtrooms and office buildings making mad money... and guess what.

THEY SMOKE WEED. fuckin right

He lied because he is a man not because he is a pothead. Also, you have no right telling him to stop smoking. It's his life you have no say in what he does.

You're pretty easy and still wanted to kiss him after all that soooo if he wanted to just use you then he had the opportunity. Have some self respect and keep some info to yourself.

Stress**

It wasn't right of him to lie. Your anger is justified. But was he really worth it, you've got to ask yourself that.