Is it normal that he is so emotionless?

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So my boyfriend and u gave been dating for a year and a half and have been so in love and love each other so much, but one problem we've had the last few months is that I. Have to move to Oregon and he doesn't want to move with me. We've fought about it a few times and not gotten an answer but now I'm moving in less than a month and the only solution he has is breaking up. And he doesn't even seem sad about it at all. And i'm really sad about it i was crying about it tonight and he didn't even say anything he's just been ignoring me all night. Even though we've been together and in live for over a year and a half, is it normal for him to be this emotionless? Guys clue me in and tell me what's going on, us this a guy thing about not showing emotions?

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Based on 19 votes (12 yes)
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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    So what happened? :( I have been through this. Only my girlfriend was moving out of Oregon. I couldn't go with her. I was too young at the time. I swear I was madly in love though.

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  • jenjen06
    12 years ago

    He is like that :( and I wish he would just open up to me and tell me how he's feeling and try to think of other possible ways to stay together besides just him moving with me or breaking up :(

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  • someperson123
    12 years ago

    year and a half wouldnt convince me to move to another state, I don't think everyone should be so hasty to label him as a dick, that seems counterproductive here for the poster. Can't speak for other guys but maybe he's like me, has emotions but doesnt show them well.

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  • LifeofLoneliness
    12 years ago

    What i'm wondering is if he is putting a brave face on it and wants you to go, why cant you both wait for each other. Your both young. I waited for someone for 14 years. Yes ok, so thats a long time, but I belived it was worth it.

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  • jenjen06
    12 years ago

    That is actually a thing about it. He told me he doesn't want me to compromise my plans for him

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  • randomdudeguy
    12 years ago

    It seems like he doesn't want to move, but he doesn't want you too stay just for him. He MIGHT be putting on a tough face so you won't change your mind. (keyword=MIGHT) odds are though he might just be a dick

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  • jenjen06
    12 years ago

    It's one state. Away not six and I told him I would do anything to stay together except stay in Washington because I can't go to school here. Nowhere in Washington has my major so I can't stay here. I already tried to stay close and go to school here but I can't.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    I'd follow my love anywhere.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    if you really loved him and thought the relationship was worth it, then you'd find a way to stay with him and not move six states away. why should he fight for you when you're the one who's walking away from the relationship?

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  • InsertBlankHere
    12 years ago

    He's had a lot of time to mentally prepare for this, so he's in control of his emotional response. A lot of people repress painful emotions whether or not they mean to. It's likely he's as upset as you are, but he doesn't want to show it to you, or himself.

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    It seems like he is a jerk. I know it's hard but you have to move on.

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