Is it normal that he is not that into me?

So I've known this guy as a friend . At first I never knew I liked him so much because he would always say hi to me in school and after a while I started to like him because he was always really nice to me.
A couple of weeks ago I went to prom with our group of friends and when I arrived and walked over to where my friends were at he was there with the biggest smile he stepped back to look at me and it made me feel really awesome that he did that but yeah after that he didn't say much until we went to dance .

A slow song came on and all my friends went to dance and he waited for me to stand up so he could dance with me and it was really romantic . He taught me how to slow dance and he didn't really look at me .

After that we sat down and we didn't really talk so much. So I went to go dance with some other people after I came back to the table he looked kinda pissed off, I did dance with some other guys but I wasn't trying to kill the moment I just wanted to have fun . I came back and I asked him if he wanted to dance he said no that he didnt want to . After we went down stairs and he started to drink out of a water bottle filled with alcohol and I was kinda worried. Then after prom ended we all got a cab and went to see a movie .

We were all drinking and we sat next to each other and somehow he held my hand and I layed on his chest which was so nice . I could feel his heart beating really fast and I felt like that was a sign he liked me. After that we he held hands through the whole movie and it ended when we all left the movies to go home . Him and his friends were gonna smoke weed and I told him not to , and he listened to me and sat with me and waited for a cab so we all can go home .

When the cab came and picked is up I told him I liked him . And then he kinda laughed cus I was really drunk . I also told kissed him and he kissed me back but then something slipped out and I told him I madeout with one of my girl friends at prom then he said he didn't know if he liked me. And I was so sad. I felt stupid. He gave me money to go home and left at his stop. Like why would he do all of that if he didn't like me like that ? When we went to school he told my friend he liked me but he never told me so I don't know . He doesn't even talk to me. Or have a real conversation? Did I hurt him or is he really not into me like he said?

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Comments ( 5 )
  • RoseIsabella

    So what? Are we supposed to feel sorry for you? He's probably jealous and thinks your too loose. You also seem a bit controlling. Why is it okay for you to make out with your friends, but not okay for him to smoke out with his buds?

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  • I think this is a case of him liking who he thought you were and then getting to know you a bit more and then not liking you in the way he liked the way he thought you were.

    There IS a chance he's just nervous but from how he went from being in to you so clearly and openly to backing offquite a bit, I would say the most likely case is what I explained at the start of this comment.

    I think you blew it and now you must walk in the friendzone. A momment of silence for you. :'(

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  • jamiehooper89

    He's a raging homosexual get over it

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  • Cymbalism

    It sounds like he probably likes you and he's a little nervous or shy. Just go talk to him and get to know each other better.

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  • Short4Words

    He likes you.

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