Is it normal that he is following his ex?

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Hey guys :) i hope you can help me cause clearly i cant help my self haha. im in a five year relationship with my boyfriend and three years ago we almost broke up cause i found messages on his facebook with this girl, he was saying ,,please dont come to gym in those leggings, ill have to bang you" of course i started crying and wanted to go home and took all my stuff but he said that everyone jokes with her like that, he was crying and all and SOMEHOW i got over it...i was really stupid i guess. And now, three years after they started following each other on instagram...first i was pissed but i didnt say anything,and yesterday i told him its not okay cause we almost broke up because of her. He told me that she followed him cause she wanted to say sorry cause his mom died, so he followed back. I felt bad but i still dont feel right about it

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    You didn't almost break up because of her, it was because of him. Either you trust him or you don't and if you don't feel you can, the relationship has no future

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  • Keepsake
    7 years ago

    Nah, just break up with him. No decent guy would make a flirtatious joke like that when they're dating someone else.
    After a red flag like that and with an ex he can't stop communicating with, you two are gonna be in drama.

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