Is it normal that he doesn't act like it?

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My best friend and I have been friends for 5 years. He's a guy and trust me when I say we have absolutely no feelings for eachother. But he's basically my life and we're inseparable. But lately he's been slacking and not acting so friend-like by not being there for me. He knows that I've been a little down lately bc he hasn't been the best friend lately. So he's always like, you have to know that I love you even though it doesn't seem like it. And sometimes I just can't believe it. is it normal that he doesn't "act like it" like he says? is it normal that's he ignores me but still says nothing's wrong? is it normal that I actually care so much

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  • Xfing
    9 years ago

    He probably wants to fuck you because he feels friendzoned (which he, for all intents and purposes, is), so he's distancing himself from you so that you don't think he'll be there for you at your every whim. He hopes this will work to make you actually feel attracted to him.

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  • Diver2
    10 years ago

    Offer him a blowjob!

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  • DragonQueen
    10 years ago

    Guys don't like to be nagged by girls, They rather be the pursuer. And honestly it sounds like he's a little sick of you. So get rid of him. And go Get a real boyfriend, who will treat you, like the Queen u are.

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  • 69
    10 years ago

    you sound excessively dependent on your relationship. he might be giving you a hint and not want to be as dependent or want you to rely solely on him. people need to be somewhat self sufficient

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  • MmmHmm
    10 years ago

    I have a similar situation happening with my best friend as well. It's important to realize that your friend could be going through something they haven't told you about yet. The past two weeks or so, I've been realizing that I feel like I'm not getting the same amount of care from my friend and I am giving to him. I decided to take some space from him and pull back a little. Only give how much you're getting. It makes you feel better, honestly.

    See if things start to get better in a week or so, and if not, maybe have a real talk about what's going on. That's what I'm planning on doing with my friend if things don't improve over the next few days. Just remember that your expectations of how you think you should be treated won't always be met, but also know the limit to that and how you deserve someone who will at least try to meet that expectation.

    Good luck!

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