Is it normal that he does this?

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Hii umm I have been really freaking out because last Sunday my sister had a birthday party and my uncle who is about 60 he started having a massive conversation with me and touched my back I guess he was flirting and then when I was standing watching tv he came up behind me and held/grabbed my waist and when he left I went to hug him goodbye and then he kissed me on my lips cheek and neck and kept holding me for a while its just really freaked me out.
The next time I saw him we went to his house and when dinner had finished I went into the front room where my sister was playing on the wii with his son. But there were a bit away and he moved up a tiny bit on the sofa so we were basically touching. He was strocking my leg and flirting with me again. Then implied that he would marry me if i asked. he started kissing me all over my face, my neck, my lips and my chest.

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  • Satanic_Cereal
    10 years ago

    Don't listen to the above commenter, who's blaming you. This is not your fault. It was wrong of your uncle- he is the one to blame.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    No. You really must tell someone about this fucking man's behaviours. He's a fucking pervert and he needs to be stopped.

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  • CalliopeA
    10 years ago

    If your parents won't listen to you, try telling a counselor. Tell the uncle youre uncomfotable and ask him to stop. If he keeps going, make a big deal out of it. Sure its not the most preferred way, but if it gets someones attention it worked. Other then that never be alone with him. Always have a friend or family member with you.

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  • xoxochick
    10 years ago

    Ok first of you uncles a super pervert, Its not your fault he's a creep. If your mom doesn't listen then try telling teacher/counselor or another family member. Tell him your not comfortable around him when he acts that way. If he doesn't stop you should tell him to stop or you will report it to the police.

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  • Mister_Nobody
    10 years ago

    I'm guessing you're pretty young. It really would be a good idea to tell your parents about this. It may feel embarassing, but you can't let your psycho uncle get away with this. Think what he might do to you next time.
    Also, don't listen to any assholes who try to blame you for what happened.

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    • Mia338
      10 years ago

      Thanks but after i told my mum last time it didnt go down well so i dont really want to bother her again with this news...

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  • shuggy-chan
    10 years ago

    doesnt everyone's grandpa do this?

    ^^ thats sarcasm

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    And you just sat there and let him get as far as to kissing you from your chest up? Seriously?

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    • Mia338
      10 years ago

      I told my mum when it first happened at my sisters 18th but she just dismissed this, and said that was just the way he is. So what am i meant to do now!

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Well if he tries to do it to you again make sure you let him know that you do not like it at all. Tell him to please stop touching you politely and if he continues after that then maybe you should consider pushing him off slapping or biting as a detterant. After that you should call your local authorities and file a police report on him. Don't let this kind of behavior continue. If you don't like the way he touches you then he should not be touching you. Also your mom is wrong. She is just making excuses for his perverted acts. You know that he is making you uncomfortable. Don't let it happen anymore.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    No way. This post is a month old, but in case you haven't told anyone, do so!! That is completely inappropriate of him and you need to stay away from him.

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  • la_uva_mojada
    9 years ago

    he's a sexual predator

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Have you told your parents about your degenerate uncle? You need to tell them!

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  • kennag123
    10 years ago

    That's an awkward situation

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  • macaroniheyo
    10 years ago

    You need to tell someone about this.

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