Is it normal that he can forget me.

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I have been in a relationship for 6 years. But the problem is that he is married and has 2 kids as well. He loved me a lot and same here with me. I always listened him and followed whatever he said. He told me many times before that he will marry me and keep me with his wife in the same house. I agreed too for all this. I always told that i cant live without u at any cost. He met me with his wife and kids and represnted me as his friend. but after sometime we had a combat between us and he told the truth in his family about us.but he is really changed now, now he wants me to end up the relation bcoz he wants to give his pleasure time to hs family.. but i cant live without him.. and he told each and everything about our relation in my family so that i wont be allowed to come out to meet him. i m calling and calling again to him on daily basis.. i do atleast 500 calls a day to him.. but he is not talking to me.. the fact is he himself dont wants to marry me and also he cant see me getting married to someone alse.. he does not believe me.. blames me as characterless and compares me with his wife and always takes her favour.. he abuses me in front of his wife, friends and family.. but i m not able to forget him.. i dnt want to marry someone else... I want him and only him at any cost.. but he is not ready to leave his wife... I LOVE HIM A LOT... PLEASE HELP ME TO GET HIM..BECAUSE I DONT KNOW THAT WHAT HE REALLY WANTS. I NEED HIM... I WILL DIE WITHOUT HIM. I CANT LEAVE HIM....

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Of course he can forget you. You're not his wife. He made a choice - his wife & family or the girl on the side. He chose THEM.

    But sure... keep on calling him 500 times a day. You're doing a great job - of convincing him that he made the right choice.

    By the way, don't be surprised if you get arrested for stalking and harassment. Yeah. They can do that to you.

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    • deepikasaini
      12 years ago

      but if i dont call him he again blames me and having doubt on me that i do have relation with another guy also.. he talks to me whenever he likes... there is no choice for me.. he is the right taker..

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        12 years ago

        You already said he's not talking to you, so ... how is he telling you this?

        Besides that's a bit hypocritical. A married cheater getting uppity if his girl on the side is cheating or not.

        "Do as I say, not as I do," eh?

        Since he already called it off as you said... it's time to actually leave him. He already left you after all... left you for his wife.

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  • RubyCane
    12 years ago

    At least 82% of all people up in here has been through TONS OF EXTREMELY DEEP SHIT, way more serious than you might think of... You will eventually realise that you are going through a very simple and common case. Get your stuff together, love yourself and grow up. I wish you the best, just stop living in a utopia... ;)

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago

    Fuckin hell you sound like a right piece of work.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    he's mine and you cant have him

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    • RubyCane
      12 years ago

      LMAOOOO <3

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    • deepikasaini
      12 years ago

      i did not understand.......................

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        the mirror understands you, only you, he is not in your mirror

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  • LightningTechnician
    12 years ago

    As soon as I read that guy was married I automatically came to a conclusion: Op is an idiot. Nuff said.

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  • suckonthis9
    12 years ago

    That was your mistake.
    You only called him at least 500 times a day.
    You should have called him at least 501 times a day.
    He was sure to pick up on call 501.

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    • deepikasaini
      12 years ago

      oh plz dont make fun of me... i really love him... do come at my place for once than only u will understand my problem

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      • assh0le
        12 years ago

        I'd love to come at your place - where do you live?

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      • suckonthis9
        12 years ago

        I understand you have a problem.

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  • assh0le
    12 years ago

    Uh, and who are you again? I forget......

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  • poof!gone122
    12 years ago

    who is OP?

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    • RubyCane
      12 years ago

      deepikasaini, obviously...

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  • BigScaryRooster
    12 years ago

    Seeing someone who's married with a family NEVER works out. You need to forget him and move on since he's obviously already forgotten about you.

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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    Yes, its normal he can forget you.

    Also, don't kill the wife.
    You won't take her place if you do, you'll go to prison.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      12 years ago

      omg. is she talking about killing his wife too?

      that might be why he dumped her.

      and calling them 500X a day is sure to get her a set of shiny bracelets from the police.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Wow you both sound like winners. Saying you'll die without him is a little dramatic. You'll die without water. Everyone goes through losing someone they love. It doesn't work out. It happens. Now grow a pair and move on. The fact that he's married should have been a red flag though eh?

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    • deepikasaini
      12 years ago

      i cant expect my life with someone else instead of him...

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