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I am in a distance relationship with my boyfriend, so we see each other only some days a month. I know that every boy watches porn, but I find it incredibly annoying and offensive when I walk into the other room and find him wanking to porn, during the few days that I am there with him. I am starting to think he is addicted to it. Is it normal?
"I know every boy wanks to porn".... this generation has seriously gone wrong. Everybody gets curious and will probably look up pornography, but when it gets to be like the situation in this post, it's too far!!!!!
You shouldn't even have to think about stuff like this, it's so completely inappropriate for him to even think that would be ok!! Or he should at least make damn sure you don't find out. The relationship is You and Him, not you, him, a website and a box of kleenex.
Snap him out of this. Get sexy with him but no alone time with the porn, its so....lame.
He should show some respect for you by making sure he does not get caught wanking. Getting caught obviously gives him pleasure.
There are rather fundamental differences between watching porn and actually having sex with someone. Watching porn and masturbating are rather simple things in most cases, whereas sex seems a bit more involved. Maybe he didn't think you were in the mood, didn't feel like expending that much effort, or any number of things.
Generally speaking, if he's forgoing sex in favor of masturbation, there may be a problem. If he's masturbating as well as having sex with you, there likely isn't an issue.
Most important of all, talk to him about this. Any amount of advice people on the Internet give you isn't going to help without clear lines of communication between you two.