Is it normal that guys looking for a rebound only propose me?

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i don't know if its coincedence or i kind of attract guys who are broken hearted and are looking for a rebound??i'm a good looking girl but guys who approach me are either desperate or looking for a rebound to get over their ex.i was also in a relationship with such a guy and after 3 months he broke up with me cause his ex accepted him again.after that i never said yes to any guy cause all who approached me were broken hearted.IIN??will i get the right guy?

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  • ChemGirl
    11 years ago

    First of all, do you KNOW that all the guys who have asked you out are desperate/trying to get over someone??? Perhaps your experience with your ex has clouded your opinion.

    That being said, there are a ton of jerks out there. Make a guy wait for you (by that, I mean make him be romantic and show his affection). If he goes out of his way to show you how much he cares, he probably won't leave you for his ex. If he does leave you for an ex, he was a waste of time. Not worth worrying about it.

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  • thatperson1992
    11 years ago

    You = slut

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  • Sensate
    11 years ago

    happens to both guys and girls. In my opinion most people are fucked up about past relationships in some way. Doesnt mean you should always assume your being treated as a rebound

    I would not like a girl who can't handle my baggage and support me, as I wouldn't be able to be myself. And in the same way I am very supportive towards them when it comes to their past experiences. But it is indeed very dishearthning when you end up used and discarted for someone who was the root of the problem in the first place.

    People should treat eachother with more respect. Even though a relationship may not work out, there's no excuse for using someone to boost your own ego for a couple of weeks and then discart them like they never helped or supported you

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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    That's funny, i know lots of girls who get broken up with their boyfriend and then go out looking for a rebound, and start dating guys immediately and are back in a serious relationship with someone else within 3 weeks because he was there for them in their time of need, even if they aren't the best choice.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    You'ev already taken the first step by saying NO! Sooo... I think you'll be just fine

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