Is it normal that guys are such horn dogs?????
This last weekend I went to a lakeside cabin with my brother, my guy cousin, and some friends. There were going to be a couple other girls going, but they backed out at the last minute, so I was the only girl. I am 19, my brother 22, my cousin 33, and the other guys were in the 25 to 36 range. So there I am with 6 guys, but I am thinking it'll be ok, I am with family, and it's just a couple nights. But the first night we were all in the hot tub drinking beers and stuff, and one after another of the guys started rubbing their feet against mine, including my brother and cousin! And they were all making rude comments, and jokes about sex, and about how beautiful I was. I was weirded out. Then this one guy, who is 26, starts edging closer to me, and grabbing my foot and pushing it against his penis, and grabbing and clawing under my bathing suit for my privates. I couldn't take it anymore, and stood up to go to the bathroom. Before long, my cousin comes in to retrieve me. I told him what happened, and he hugged me, and babied me, and told me it was going to be okay. Then as I continued to whimper about it, he started kissing me. Then he told me I had to come back out to the hot tub, that it would be okay as long as I stayed close to him. (By this time everyone had gone to bed except for him, me, and the 26 year old.) As soon as we get back in though, the 26 years old starts grabbing and pulling at me, even though my cousin was watching. My cousin got mad and pulled on the other side of me, it was like a tug-of-war. I thought I would be ripped in two. My cousin was touching my crotch openly too. Then, when the 26 year old went for my privates again, my cousin shoved his hand away, and the sort of got into a fight. My cousin finally let me go to bed, and so I was supposed to room with him and my brother. Half way through the night the 26 year old came in, apparently wanting to rape me, but my cousin (who is 6'4, 230 lbs) stopped him. I finally got some sleep, and the next day was a little better, although everyone still made no secret of the fact they were dying to have me. Last night, after it was all over, my cousin called up lecturing me on how I should have asked for his help sooner, and alerted him to the fact I was being molested. My brother seemed mad at me over it all too. All I can ask is is this normal for guys to take advantage of a situation like this? Even trusted family and friends? Is alcohol really that detrimental?