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I mean, I don't find myself charming or friendly yet for some odd reason girls cling to me like I'm a flesh magnet. I'm not looking for relationships, as I feel good on my own. I don't talk a whole lot and people that I do talk to don't know much about me anyway.
All in all, is it normal for girls to like reserved, mysterious lone wolves?
Girls like guys who don't sugarcoat them and serve as doormats. You probably don't treat them like princesses and they find it intriguing. A breath of fresh air. Unlike most idiots nowadays who go out of their way to stroke women's egos, trying to suck up to them, hoping that one day, one of those chicks will let them lick the toilet seat they just sat on. Those guys never get women.
What Crusades said. Whenever I'm in a social surrounding such as college, group of friends, etc, curiously the same happens with me.
Weird how non-interest gathers most interest, is it not?
I disagree. Go ahead and stroke women's egos. We like it! Just as you like it, when women stroke your ego.
All you need, is to have long-ish hair, in order to be attractive. Unlike most guys. Read my profile on why! Sorry I keep repeating this advice, regulars-of-this-site who are pissed off at me...
So, guys,
keep your hair slightly long, at least. And then STROKE women's egos...
And women will be attracted to you, regardless that you stroke their ego. Or, regardless that you don't stroke their ego, if you chose not to. Why? Because they'll be ***VISUALLY *** attracted to you. Just like men are often visually attracted to women!
Do people say that, in order for a woman to attract a man, she has to be cold to him? Or not be nice to him? I don't know- I usually hear, instead, that women are urged to look good for men, in order to attract them. Believe it or not... the same is true in reverse! ;)
A guy can have any personality type, and be attractive. As long as he has long-ish hair and looks good. He can be a lone wolf, or he can be outgoing. He can be sugarcoated, or he can be aloof. He can be mysterious or bubbly. Pretty boy, or masculine....
The looks actually compliment the personality. It's like sugar in your tea. If you drink peppermint tea, but you don't add sugar, then you won't be able to taste the peppermint. It will just taste like dirty water. The same with a guy who does not really have hair. Regardless what personality he has, he is "flavorless" (except to people who like unsweetened drinks, but that's not everyone).
Grow his hair out, and his attractiveness will make his personality more attractive as well! Regardless which "flavor" of personality it is.