Is it normal that girls go for bastards ??

I'm so very sorry but from what I have noticed in guys this "nice guy" behaviour is frequent amongst men who really isn't that good looking or who believes that they are less attractive.
They try to compensate and more often than not they go for women WAY above their own attractiveness-scale and does everything for them to make them appreciate them.
Sorry but no, this isn't how you get the girl.

Be nice, yes. But don't be so nice that you come across as her little lap-dog. As a woman I want a MAN. I want a PREDATOR.

My predator just happens to know when to use this and when to be caring and sweet. It's all about balance.

Most of us wants what we cannot have, such as the popular outgoing guy who has girls lined up and not the nice guy that took an immediate interest in us just from seeing our face ...

Luckily not ALL great girls go for assholes, although it can definitely seem that way sometimes.

One thing I have to ask is have you made your intentions known?
I think a lot of nice guys fuck things up by coming across as just a friendly guy then wondering why the girl isn't just realizing how great a guy they are & wanting into their pants &/or lives.
If you have a romantic interest make it clear.
Flirt, steal a kiss, tell her how you feel. Whatever works for you but make it known that you like her...

Also, being chivalrous is great but don't fake it to "show what a nice guy you can be".
Do it if it comes naturally to you & it's how you believe a girl should be treated.

& don't be a pushover for fucks sake!
Treat your girl like a princess by all means but don't let ANYONE use you...

Sorry hunny when girls are young, we go after good looks.(just like a lot of guys do as well) When us girls get older and mature you're the type of guy we settle down with believe that! So don't take it to the heart. Keep treating girls the way you do, you're amazing! And btw don't ever change yourself for someone (like pretending to be interested in the same music as them) always be you!

Yep. I just love guys who are the result of premarital sex.

Maybe she doesn't like guys who treat her like a baby. Everyone wants to be independent.

Ever hear the saying, "Nice guys finish last"?

For future reference kid. When you like a girl make sure she knows it. It's not as scary as Im sure your little head thinks it is. What's the worst that can happen? you get friend zoned?... again.

Nice/Good guys remains alone... saying from experience. girls no longer wants nice guys.

If she isn't responding to u being a nice guy, then yeah, start treating her like shit. Pretend she isn't worth your time, or at least assert YOUR worth, don't let her walk all over you just because there's a puddle in front of you.

It's normal that a lot of girls go for complete bastards. That being said, you shouldn't be doing all this for her. If she's chasing some other guy I'd just drop doing all this extra shit for her and move on. You can still be friends with this girl, but obviously she's intrested in the more douche-bag type of guy, so she's no better than these type of guys. Girls who go for the bastards are usually just as bad as the bastards. Either that or they've had daddy issues in the past, or some other under-lying problem. Your best bet is to go for someone who actually appreciates you and doesn't use you for all that extra shit. Holding the door for a women is fine, but carrying all her shit, and doing all these extras is too much, because you end up getting used, and that's it. I've learned this because I used to get used the same way. Don't let them use you.

Based on what what I've seen and think I know? Yes.

But the problem is the bastards tend to be the tall dark and handsome type, often rich or well off(so they know they can get away with being bastards) most of the women fight over while us average dudes are often stuck with our dick in our hand.

I think your definition of nice guy... Might be equatable to a door mat.

What you're doing wrong is everything you're doing now. I'm not saying be an ass. Thing is they way you've gone about it makes it very easy for her to take you and the things you do for granted.

There is good news. You've gotten her accustomed to having all this stuff done for her so she'll definitely notice when it stops. Don't act upset, don't act immature, just don't give her as much attention as you did and be nonchalant about it when / if she brings it up.

It kinda is true though. She'll be into the asshole but not for the reasons you think. He's a challenge to her. It makes him seem exciting while you on the other hand? I doubt she's stupid. She may already know of your crush and that would make you too easy.

So just end it all but remain friendly when she comes and talks to you but make sure you're not the one hunting her down. Ever. and don't just jump to carry her books or open doors like you're begging for it. Make up excuses sometimes... Say anything.. Just don't be a door mat. It's sweet the first couple of times... just not... attractive. Not at your age anyways.

Maybe the girl's been abused so in a sick way, it comforts her as it's the only type of relationship she knows and can tolerate. She might actually be in alot of pain emotionally and phychologically. No healthy or truly happy person likes abuse. I'd suggest you to talk to her and try breaking her out of this horrible situation. Therapy might help.

You sound so gay, man.

Don't carry her stuff around like a little lap dog :/
You want her to think you're a badass? Poop in her bag. If that won't work then I don't know what will

She's an idiot; you deserve better.