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Every girl I've met is unhappy and too emotional. She is insecure about her weight, future, her man, her friends, her daddy issues, her grades, her looks, etc. She wants it all but won't have it.
There's a lot of social pressure on girls. It's hard to rise above that when society's plastered with digitally edited images of models and must-have material objects.
To be successful it feels like she needs to fit a distinct mold society's fabricated - generally one that is largely guarenteed by fincancial stability.
This is frustrating because it pressures her to make decisions and pursue goals or jobs which may not be of any real importance to her.
that's the way a lot of girls are. Many of them are insecure and just want acceptance.
Because that's what most girls are like, emotional. It is because of the pressure put on them from media, parents, life, guys and whatever else you can think of.
And I'm a girl btw.
Ok I'm a girl. And I think u r lumping us all into a category that is not true of our whole gender. I do what I want when I want. Many girls r emotional but I wouldn't chalk it up to media, its got a lot to do with hormones and chemicals in our bodies. Sure, the media doesn't help, but they r not the cause. I personally believe that anyone can anything if they feel like it. And u must be hanging out with some real downers, sorry. Everyone has insecurities. Maybe the girls u talk to Judy
i notice you said girls and not women, you see, women do not act this way.
let me explain: girls start their periods around age 9-13, during this time hormones are flooded in their blood stream, helping nourish and promote the proper growth and function of their brains, muscles, reproductive systems, metabolism, and so on. boys have the same things happening. hormones do not control mood, but they do affect it (sadly! ugh) and during these years girls are sensitive, but they eventually grow out of it. and with all the pressure of todays society and with getting good grades, thats a lot of stress!!!!
boys play sports and action video games to release aggression that is built up in their blood due to testosterone. boys are raised not to cry and be sensitive, but everyone knows that man cry too, behind closed doors.
teen-hood is hard on everybody, girls just show it more, because we can.
im not a teenage girl anymore though, thank GOD
about koifish's post, im a dude, but i reckon i know what u feel
you feel like guys only want you for sex
right?
That sounds kind of harsh N I didnt know every girls like that but I guees so and yea you could say girls have "issuesz'
Youthful, profound, analytical, obese, uninterested in love, surrounded by few friends, pressured to exceed far beyond average expectations...
And yet, I find this idea confusing. I'm too grateful for every giving heart in the world and all the wonderful things that would be impossible without them. I am content with where my life is headed; even though the chance of failure looms in all of us, it's still O.K. to be happy.
Therefore, I ask as I'm not sure of it myself: Why do you feel that all girls are miserable?
And the reason why men die younger, its cause they have to hear all the nagging for it.
I call bullshit.
Where are you finding these girls? Yes girls have plenty of insecurities but once we grow up into women we begin to find ourselves an realise that we just cannot have it all. I can't speak for every woman because we all have different ambitions and dreams, but that does not mean all women are over emotional and obsessive over all of those factors. Sometimes it is just life and that is what is expected from us.
Also I'm not miserable haha I'm very happy and for girls to blame it on men is kinda dumb, no offense
Sorry typo.
they just voice theirs more.auberge hang out with some confident girls and ur opinion will change
Agreed most bitches are that way thanks to the scumbag men they have surrounded themself with over the years.
oh ffs im sick of this its because girls want attention i know loads of them that always say stupid shit for attention it gets so ridiculos because you know there full of shit but dont want to sound like a harsh twat
that's not true.
i'm content with all of those things.
@ koifish, they only do that if you let them.
Thumbs up for Eva_Braun88!
Well IMO, I think it's neither normal and abnormal since girl can be fragile at many times same shit happens to men.
Heck, my friend(girl) used to tell me and my friends about her problems and all up to the point she layed on me and cried for a looooong time.I needed to change my shirt haha!