Is it normal that for some people violence is a turn on?

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Well basically for me violence is such a turn on, violent rape scenes, violent movies anything that contains violence excites me.

The funny thing is I’m not even a violent person, I’m quit a calm/nice girl, but for example sex for me has to be rough, violent and with bondage. Making love is so boring it does nothing for me. For example take the act of kissing, quit normal but for me if someone bit my lips in a rough way whilst kissing me, now that’s a turn on.

Another thing is hearing on the news that someone got murder/raped/beaten/abducted or watching serial killer documentaries sexually arouses me.

Who here thinks violence is a turn on?

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  • ElectricFence
    13 years ago

    Not for a second did I doubt that there are others out there who feel the same as I do about violence.Just some of the stories/comments that I've read on this page turned me on immensely. I love violent sex and rape fantasies. I love it when my boyfriend hits me, pulls my hair,chokes me, grabs me hard, throws and slams me around and fucks the living shit out of me. We were going to have anal sex once and instead of going slow like I had asked him to, he rammed it inside me and didn't stop even if I told him to stop because it hurt. He just kept fucking me harder and it turned me on sooo much!

    Violence, weapons and blood turn me on as well. I love big strong, aggressive men and I love to watch men fight. Those prison shows on TV are a favorite of mine because I go crazy over dangerous men. So far, none of my turn ons have gotten me into any trouble,and I'm not planning on letting them get me into trouble anytime soon.

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  • ragefultuna
    13 years ago

    @gabbetogs16 I don't think a 3 hour orgasm is even possible

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  • just-a-girl
    14 years ago

    Im just like that with my boyfriend. i like while were kissing that he pulles me into him and holds me very very tight, and squeezes my arms tight.

    he always say im really kinky because i bit him a lot.

    so i think it is completely normal

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    You sound like a sadist. Knowing those people suffered and thinking its fun is rather cruel. Now wanting to be tied up and gagged is very kinky and common. However you seem to be taking it to the level of a serial killer.

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    • CreamPuffs
      7 years ago

      I fully agree. I'm into bondage myself, but there's a point where one has to question their sanity.

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  • micromao666
    14 years ago

    completely normal gal!

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  • xenonex
    14 years ago

    Though my wife isn't into it, she will pretend that I am raping her: First I focus on giving her orgasms, and holding back on mine. After that, she'll smile & then pretend to be trapped under me. I'll get into it & only after I've come will she drop the act. I'm not really rough at all, but she acts like I'm hurting her somehow. We both know it's pretense, but we always keep it safe.

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  • HellAndHighWater
    14 years ago

    It's called sadomasochism. I'm not sure which one you are, 'cause you didn't go into details about it, but I myself am masochistic, and I'll have you know that Sadomasochism is the most common kind of kink.

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  • teddimarczak
    14 years ago

    my husband beats the living shit outta me! (i'm divorcing him at this moment) but we always make up and have sex. it is so sick. He kicked me in the mouth a couple weeks ago and FUCKED my lip up and then i was crying and he kissed me and we had sex. bloody and all. gross i know and i am very ashamed.

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    • Satchmo
      12 years ago

      Yours is a different situation with these people it is totally consensual

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  • Barney96
    14 years ago

    Violence is a turn on for me also. When I masterbate I usally think of some crazy murder/rape scene and the victum is wildly enjoying it. Weird huh? Oh well at least i am not alone!

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    • ElectricFence
      13 years ago

      That kind of thing turns me on as well.

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  • Jennalee
    14 years ago

    Wow that is kinda weird actually!!!

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    • PoisonFlowers
      14 years ago

      You have no idea what weird is! Lol, you probably don't want to know about it either.

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  • SeniorKenzo
    14 years ago

    Well when it comes to having sex it's totally normal to get rough just to add some kink to it, lol. But don't take this violence thing too far because you don't want it to be so addictive that you'll end up actually acting on those urges (as is the case with porn addicts: they need stuff that's more and more shocking just to get off.) Hope it helps. :)

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  • gabbetogs16
    14 years ago

    im 18 year old guy, for me tortcher is a turn on
    i like to make girls faint or beg while having sex.
    the best part for me is to give a women 1-3 h long torchering orgasms.. untill they just pass out.
    so i think its normal
    ooh yeah i like if someoni bites in my lips while kissing too! :D

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  • Maxxi
    6 years ago

    I know this post is old, but just wanted to add, I'm also turned on by sexual violence, mostly rape and strangulation. If I hear about it, read about it, see it in a movie, I'm instantly aroused! For me when having sex or trying to reach orgasm I always have to think of rape, or watch a rape scene online, I've been into the kink scene before, and there are many other people into the same thing as you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    BITING AND BONDAGE ARE MAJOR TURN-ONS FOR ME TOO!!
    If its not rough it isn't fun!
    Thank you for that quote lady Gaga

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  • xenonex
    14 years ago

    ...In addition, I like violent movies because, in the back of my head, I know I'm watching a bunch of actors & special effects. Knowing it's ultimatly fake, allows me to enjoy the scenes, especially if it's a bit over the top.

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  • iHate
    14 years ago

    BD&SM Sounds good for you.

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  • oneweirdboy
    14 years ago

    I think it's normal. I love it when girls are kind of rough with me. It's kind of hot, even if the girl isn't attractive.

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  • PoisonFlowers
    14 years ago

    Yeah, it is. I'm not a violent person either.

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    • serialkillerlover
      14 years ago

      thanks poisonflowers at least one person thinks this is normal.:) are you sure your normal?

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  • blahuhblah
    14 years ago

    Wow, I am EXACTLY the same way.

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