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I'm a 23 year old feamale and I am always told Im beautiful and sexy by random guys I've never seen before. Is this just immachurity or are they actully looking for a serious relationship?
I'm stuck as to what to do. At the moment I just ignore them. Should this change? Please tell!
That's just men in their 20's being men in their 20's. This is absolutely normal. If you don't know a guy well enough to tell if he's actually looking for a serious relationship you probably shouldn't try being in one with him until you do!
You're 23. You're probably very attractive. Guys will want to sleep with you. Period. It won't stop any time soon, either. This is just part of life. What you do with that is up to you! I hope you find one that does genuinely appreciate you for who you are AS WELL AS wanting to get busy :)
Of course it's normal. I don't even think you'd have to be good-looking to get that kind of attention either.
Your a female with a fanny so obviously guys want to shag you, now shut your mouth and get back in the kitchen.
No normally guys want to 'bed' the ugly chicks, and want to tell them how beautiful they are!!
Don't be ridiculous, of course guys want to sleep with good looking women, that's normal. Where have you been hiding, under a rock?
By the way, whatyu doin tonight hunny, feeling lonely? Lol
Lol, 2 people voted me as -1 for telling the truth about guys.
And don't give me this rubbish about inner beauty or something. As per this topic wording we are talking about guys that give good looking girls fox whistles etc.
Just imagine 2 work guys on lunch, and a real fat ugly chick with red hair (ok some may like red hair but I don't) and glasses walks by; and one of the work guys says, 'Hey gorgeous, you look hot'
Pretty positive the other work mate would hit him and tell him off for being so mean to the ugly bitch! Either that or laugh his head off.
But no no, this type of truth, (ugly) people just don't want to hear.
Roll in the 'poor taste' thumbs down for this fact ladies.
You're not going to believe this but I thought of you when writing that. I thought I hope not.
Look I went out with a red head for a few years once, and she lived up to the stereotypical look, of 'red head' anger. So I became a tad biased. But seriously a nice red head would certainly change my mind!
Lets not stop a horse at the gates here, we are not 'through', I hope? Ok I'll go all out here, Sorry. There, satisfied?
IMO any guy who speaks up to a girl and says something about them being 'fit' a babe ' sexy hot 'say they want to have sex with you
those are all derro sleeze bags who will treat you like shit in the long run....... avoid them the right guy if he has the strength to talk to you will say something sweet that will make you want them instead.....
genetically we men want have the best chance of our offspring being born alive and having a nurturing female suitable for nursing them. Hence the attraction to young women, with substantial breasts, long legs and wide set hips. These desires are extremely deeply ingrained. Just as the female of the species is attracted to the aggressive male with a sturdy frame that can best provide her with healthy offspring that is more likely to survive to procreate themselves. The discussion of social norms and mores are just so much window dressing for our basic natures.
they wanna bed you for those reasons. you choose to look attractive therefor it is going to be this way. same reason for girls. if she sees a sexy guy and everything what would she wanna do? what would you do if saw a guy you couldnt resist by looking at him?
its not immaturity because attraction is not a choice
Can't you use a mirror? You don't know how good looking you are? Are you complaining because guys pay attention to you?
im a guy and i just want to fuck your brains out. we don't even have to talk really
don't dress like a hoodrat. they obviously won't tell you things if your conservitive and covered
The only real answer to the question is to have sexual relations with each guy that does talk to you.
Then you will know for sure.
Kinda what chicken471bolonga said. Except I'll phrase it better. If you don't desire any unwanted attention, then dress more conservatively.
Why does everyone assume she dresses like a slut?
Also the whole concept is ridiculous. I'm willing to bet the OP is more physically attractive than me. I'm also letting the FACT be known that I've been wolf-whistled at and honked at and and other such things while wearing so many layers wrapped in a plain black wool coat the only things one could discern are that I have long hair, am white, and weigh somewhere between 90 and 250 pounds (accounting for the bulk of many layers).
Nerdy chicks with glasses and conservative clothing get hollered at just as often as those who dress like street-walkers. In fact to a lot of "Wooo!! Hey bay-BEE!!" guys out there find conservative dress styles even MORE appealing.
Honestly you're right. Conservative attired women probably get whistled at just as much as a liberal attired ones. However, I assumed that the OP dresses liberally because from my experiences the only girls I've seen that get a second glance at are merely those that dress slutty. I usually don't see many women who wear glasses and a lot of clothing looked at the same way the liberal ones are. This whole idea of men howling at the other gender appears to be one of perspective. Some men howl at this, others howl at that. Then you have those men that howl at both. In conclusion, men like what they see as attractive, or easy, and I was relying on my past observations in order to answer the OP's question. Also, I'm very sorry that you had to deal with men like that.
"Conservatively" and "liberally" attired? I find it amusing that you made this sound politcal, when in reality that has very little to do with it. If anything, "liberally applied" clothes would mean lots of clothes, and "conservative dress" would be looking after your clothes and wearing the same ones over and over.
I'm not slagging off your opinion or anything, just the wording you used made me chuckle.
why? Showing a lot of skin creates temptation. Sometimes people give in to it, whether the girls wants it or not.
Right, but the blame and responsibility should be placed squarely on those who give in to it, and not to the girls, who should be able to dress however they like. When I was in high school (which didn't have a particularly strict dress code), there was a girl who actually had to transfer schools because she was receiving death threats from other students for dressing somewhat provocatively. This girl didn't deserve that, and is not to be blamed. I know we're not talking about anything nearly as vile as that, but the same principle applies. You're right that one shouldn't dress provocatively without expecting attention, but that isn't and shouldn't be the issue.
It shouldn't be the issue but it is.Guys should respect the attire a girl chooses to wear, that i agree with. However, I'm sure a girl knows the consequences that come about from wearing skimpy outfits. They're tempting guys to give in to it. It's like for a hunter to see a dear right in front of his car, it's tempting to kill it. Guys have a hunters mentality, at least from what I've observed. When a girl dresses in an outfit that practically shows every part of her body, its tempting to want to "tap that." I'm sure girls are intelligent enough to know what will come about from these skimpy dresses. Not all the blame rests on the guy. What happened to that girl in your high school was awful, but I bet she expected some sort of reaction, just not as extreme.
Maybe. It's the way you portray yourself through the way you dress? Guys would "bed" most girls
Hahahahahahahahahaha do you really think there looking for a serious relationship. Your the kind of girl that annoys me
These guys are chancers. If they wanted a serious relationship they wouldn't mention your looks coz that's too shallow. Judge Judy says, "Looks fade, dumb lasts forever."
Tell them you intend to remain a virgin until you get married and see how long they hang around you.
And no you ignoring them shouldn't change. If they wanted you for something more than just how sexy you are then they would approach you the right way or become friends with you first then ask for something more. Forget what I said about Testing the waters.
By the way, judging from your spelling and grammar, you are only going to attract the right now relationship because even 20 year old men don't want to get serious with a woman with no intellectual prospects. Look for a sugar daddy while you still can.
Well. In my opinion I think it's very immature if they only want you for sex and just your looks. Just test the waters and have them get to know you. Getting to know you would probably change there intentions to just have sex with you. I get this alot to and I'm way younger than you. Oh and also if they were looking for a serious relationship they wouldn't hollar out how sexy you are and tell you they want to sleep with you. I wouldn't take those kinds of guys seriously.