Is it normal that doggie style sex is painful sometimes?

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Me and my boyfriend tried doggie style sex about a year ago.. When we first started it felt good. But as time passed it begins to hurt.. He thinks that I can't handle it but that's not the case he's no too big so that's not the issue. One particular time it was pleasurable from behind then after I took a nap and woke up and the was a sharp pain in my stomach area.. It hurt when I tried to sit down or when I stood up.. This pain lasted about 2 days and we stopped having sex in that position for about 6 months recently we tried n it was a bit painful I wasn't even able to get wet in that position. A friend mine told me to put a pillow under my pelvis for more pleasurable sex. Occasionally it feels good, and after all it was my favorite position I would like to make it pleasurable again. Any tips or relative stories?

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  • Darkoil
    13 years ago

    When fully bent over deeper penetration is possible, like every mans cock vary in size so does a womens vaginal tract, even if you think your bf has a small cock its possible that it still reaches your cervix which could be causeing the pain.

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  • katkatkat64
    12 years ago

    I sometimes have the same issue, it may just be the angle hes going in at. I have found that placing my hand on my vagina while he is doing me from behind helps with the pain and makes it pleasurable because I am kinda at the same time pushing on his cock lightly and reducing the amount of penetration and protecting the vagina.

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    • Memehoney
      12 years ago

      My boyfriend has an average sized penis, and when we first tried this position is was awesome. Actually gave me my 1st big "O"... lol....Then it started to hurt. But I will have to try that. But I'm a little lost about how I go about doing so. Lol if its not too weird can you elaborate this method a little more.

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  • Memehoney
    11 years ago

    This doggy style sex isn't anal I repeat NOT ANAL!! Oh no lol.... It's only VAGINAL I realized hold and pushing on my stomach that it helps applying a little pressure helps a lot & makes it enjoyable... Thanks for the comments though :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Try lube for your bumb if it still hurts go to the doc.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Another thing is you may be raw. They also say after awhile your buttmuscles weaken and start to leak poo and fluid and blood. Go to the doctor they might have to exam your butt but it can become a danger.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Have you tryed laying on back and let you do it like that? Also it has been proven to much buttsex gives you hemriods. I would ask doctor you may have damaged something.

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    Haha i was going to ask

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    • Memehoney
      12 years ago

      Lol. I figured someone would. I'm like let me mention that it wasnt anal sex. lol

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  • Memehoney
    13 years ago

    O yea.. It wasn't anal sex just vaginal from behind.. Just wanted to clear that up...

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