Is it normal that didn't care about my virginity

^ would you say a 14 year old girl is rational?
there is a reason why there is such a thing as a legal age limit.

*saying you don't care implies that you don't care if you were a virgin or not.
and clearly you wanted to loose yours by any means.

i'm against meaningless emotionless sex, and i'm a guy!

now a days sex is under rated. it's not just something you do with just anyone!
that's just being easy, might be cool and fun when your young. but not the responsible thing to do.

if you only lost your "V-card" because of social or peer pressure what does that make you?
you know the old saying, would you jump off a bridge?

I lost my virginity to someone I was completely in love with and cared about, but the guy was a fraud. with that being said I don't place the same importance on virginity that others do. I know girls who pine away over complete douche bags with the simple fact the guy took their virginity. and I find that rather annoying. :) be happy you haven't gone mad over something you can't take back. like most people on the planet with vaginas.

I gave mine to a stranger at 18. It was going to be with someone I loved or someone I didn't know at all. I was sick of being "the virgin" and was afraid that it would prevent guys from liking me in the future. Guys are intimidated by virgins and my virginity was just so annoying to me that I went out one night and drunkenly lost it. I don't regret it. The only thing I feel sad about is that I didn't have somebody special to give it to. It wasn't about the actual sex, just that I'm generally lonely and will be for a long time. Some of my friends didn't like my decision but they wouldn't understand because they had boyfriends to lose their virginities to.

The idea of virginity being a sacred is brought by theists. Aparently it's impure to have sex befor takeing part in a ritual that binds two people together for all eternaty. Your first time was drunk and with your friend. Better than most peoples storys im sure. Dont worrie about it.

Well, idk... At least you're not freaking out over it.

I'm 19 years old, and I lost my virginity last night. We're not even in love or going out, but we like each others' company, and we hang out normally, and intimately. He's very respectful when being intimate with me.

Losing your virginity, even to someone you don't love, but allow, isn't that big of a deal... People just overreact.

A woman could never ever ever have sex, and she could be the most cruel, hateful, malicious beast in the world. Never having sex doesn't prove purity. Being a good person does.

Also, sex is normal and healthy. Back then, before there was a Bible, humans got by from breeding with each other, and it wasn't a sin. It was keeping the race going. And sex is good for you, but it varies with how diseased or dirty a person is, too.

Don't worry about it. I don't regret losing my virginity, and I never will. Sex is sex.

I gave my virginity to my first love at 16. We were both virgins and the first time we had sex was pretty tragic, on a purely carnal scale, but it was pretty special. I still see him now, and we regard each other with the same level of respect. I'm glad that I lost my virginity the way I did, because I can see that it set the tone for how I chose my partners later.

I agree with wishiwasntnormal

i lost my virginity when i was 15. i didn't "love" my boyfriend at the time, but i still lost my virginity to him. I didn't get all crazy over it like most of the girls in my school did. I was like yeah, i had sex. So, the first time being special thing isn't really all that special.

i just lost my v-card last month. i had put the act of sex up on a pedestal and was waiting for the "right guy". then one day i realized that i may never find the right guy. considering there are so many jerks out there.. so i did it with my ex. i don't regret it and really don't care that much. if you don't care you don't hurt (emotionally that is)

I lost it when I was 14 too. I figured that my first time wouldn't be speacail anyways so it didn't really matter to me when I lost it . It's your own personal view on sex an everybodys different , but I promise you that the way you feel about sex will change MANY times , deppending on how your life is going .

I lost my v card when I was 14...I totally regret it though. It was with a girl who was, and still is, completely obsessive. Oh...did I mention it was in a movie theatre? I really wish I would have waited.

No, it seems like your friends just don't understand, I lost my v card when I was 17 and my friends distance care at all, if anything they only cared wth who I did it with. And that was because he was a jerk. You didt ask like a guy and it's cool you lost it like you did.

I was 14 as well and we females get a bad rep for being clingy after all that... well, I suppose I was the exception - maybe my brain is programed as a dude because sex without strings didn't bother me then or now.

I lost mine at age 16 it was a couple days before I turn 17 but to me it was a big deal I didn’t wanna lose it to a totally asshole or just anyone I was waiting for someone special but...at one point I stop caring I found out something that hurt me and I found no point in waiting for someone. I was eventually gonna lose it to someone so I did and after that I didn’t care I regret yes but I can’t do nothing about since it says yes to it but I do feel sad I didn’t get my first time with someone I actually care or like

Okay what's your point. Your like all the other dumbass fucking women in this world. What's the big deal about your virginity. News flash your best friend probably would have come back for a lot more had you already been sucking dick for several years. Virgins absolutely suck at fucking period. So be happy you didn't get an STD on your first fuck that would have been really shitty. Always look on the bright side of things and life feels so much better.

How old are you guys now? I want to get it over with, I'm 18 and feel so old. When I was 14/15 I told myself to wait because I was convinced there would be the right guy I would find. I'm so angry at myself for being delusional because now nothing has changed since then. 18 seems like the ideal age but I don't know how, or with who. I just know I want it to be a stranger so then I'll never see them again.

I lost my virginity when I was 14. A year later I had sex again and hated it. I am a firm believer in, "one person forever" even though I failed to accomplish that myself. Sex isn't pleasurable to me at all, but it is something you should do with someone you love.